My ex of 6 months keeps on calling/texting me and now I have agreed to grab drinks with her this week. Tear me the fuck apart TRP.

docent3434 · 2020-11-08T22:59:58+00:00

Hooking up w ex's in 99 percent of cases comes from scarcity mentality and lack of abundance.

pyth0ns · 2020-11-08T23:14:30+00:00

You up for a test... As that is what this hangout will entail.

Will you be ok in the presence of an ex ltr? Will you fall back into oneites territory? Will you be able to realize that you're beyond her and have grown. Will you realize you actually are not over her and go crawling back?

So on and so forth...

We shall find out next time on the next episode of DragonBall Zzzzzzzzzzz

reduxDev · 2020-11-08T23:48:48+00:00

I'm on your side, aside from hanging out with her.

I think keeping an ex as a plate can be fine, but why are you hanging out.

Whats the point of hanging out with a girl who you don't want to LTR. What are you getting from it? You're investing, not to get an LTR, not to get sex, to get what?

Whatever that thing you're getting is, will be gone as soon as she is, so your depending on her in some way.

If it's friendship, get more friends. If it's love or companionship, call ur mom idk. But women really don't have much to offer, so why are you misusing your time with one? Because you like spending time with her? Then LTR her, if she's not qualified, LTR someone else.

TeddyMGTOW · 2020-11-09T00:14:10+00:00

Worst case you knock her up, iron role control birth control.

The good news is you must of really pushed her buttons right for her to come back with a FWB situation...

They say its a good idea never to define the relationship, i.e keep the plate in the dark. I once had a plate define it as a FWB and she proposed we set up some ground rules. She wanted no last minute bangs, i.e. the dunking call at 2 am. She also wanted no dates. She asked what I wanted, I said No overnights. We hang, we bang, I leave...

HurricaneHugues · 2020-11-09T12:09:07+00:00

Didn't read. I think you should proceed with what you're doing. I mean, nobody on this sub actually cares whether you get played or not. Just don't come crying here after the fact.

BestVersionOfMyself_ · 2020-11-09T20:36:03+00:00

Why does TRP think that plating an ex will result in 100% failure.

It doesn't. The failure only applies to re-LTR.

Just keep it professional. Avoid the 3 "c"-s: cudling, cooking, cucking.

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-11-08T22:59:50+00:00

No need to tear you apart, that's not what this sub should be about.

Say something came up, cancel, ignore, block.

whiteindia · 2020-11-09T02:22:35+00:00

Fuck you

Title	My ex of 6 months keeps on calling/texting me and now I have agreed to grab drinks with her this week. Tear me the fuck apart TRP.
Author	DetroitGangster
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	November 8, 2020 10:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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