Many women I’ve been with, including my current girlfriend, are very submissive in the right way: do everything I want for me (cooking, cleaning,gifts,etc), sex in any way and whenever I want to, economic independence, respectful, etc.

However, when the issue of being “submissive” comes up, they all say they are not lol.

Why is that? Why is it so hard to admit they want and like to be submissive, but demonstrate it in any other way? Not complaining, just something I noticed