What Am I Doing Wrong

Former_Loser · 2020-10-30T00:34:54+00:00

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2020-10-30T00:49:13+00:00

It ain’t all about the chicks brotha. Your time will come. Maybe there is something that is throwing them off.

Maybe you just still look young to the girls you are wanting to attract, maybe your persona isn’t checking out. Idk figure out what that is and then improve.

Keep your mind on your career at this point too though. Don’t throw all that away because of stupid tail. It will come and go

stilldoingit0924 · 2020-10-30T08:38:13+00:00

I’m around the same age as you and have a similar career/financial situation. I recently started slowly but surely overcoming the anger and depression phase and have also implemented lifting into my schedule. Most of my anger and depression phase stemmed from what you struggle with. Female validation. While I’m still learning and working on it, I see the more I continue to invest in myself, the more I value myself. Example - recently got invisalign for teeth, booked 2 vacations for next year (1 is alone going to a South American country). I think the mindset here is every time you doubt yourself, you double the fuck down on yourself and keep moving forward. What makes you think someone else will love you if you can’t love yourself first.

ppvknifefight · 2020-10-30T16:53:04+00:00

Your problem is you think you can do an activity and VOILA you're immediately confident. You're doing this shyt backwards man. Fuck FINTECH, fuck your 7 months of lifting, fuck your friends, fuck whats "on paper."

None of that shyt matters primarily. What matters is your opinion of yourself - you need to do some mental reps in the self respect dojo.

Every single day of your life from now on, you tell yourself POSITIVE things out loud. You only listen to people who have unbreakable spirits and immense self confidence. You focus on things that you do better than the average person. You listen to positive music. Positivity. Positivity. Positivity.

What you typed? You NEVER type again or you frame it in a way where you're making incremental improvements.

The game must be IN you, not ON you.

Stop this coward bullshit and get your mind right.

Title	What Am I Doing Wrong
Author	Former_Loser
Upvotes	0
Comments	8
Date	October 30, 2020 12:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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