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[–]Cardiscappa 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
Every post about relationship advice assumes that women here are perfect red-pilled housewives, and they deserve much more than what they are getting.
On the contrary. There's plenty of examples around that I'm not sure if you've actually read more than one thread here.
[–]DicklessforDuarte[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
It's not all of rpw, of course, although that thread isn't the best example since most people agree cheaters are the problem, i would lose all hope if that wasn't the answer. Counterexample, since you seem to think individual posts are proof of something, look at the replies: *realize these episodes are going to be recurring parts of your lifw together. Do you really want to sign on to that? *Ask yourself if this is something that you are willing to deal with indefinitely, or at least as long as you date him. It won't get easier, and there will be steps backwards. *I'll repeat what other users have said and to treat it like other illnesses. If they fail to take care of themselves, they will probably fail to take care of you.
I understand that the majority of responses where positive, but there are plenty of negative ones, and I'm seeing more of them by the day. I have no way to back this up since it's only a personal appreciation, and it will take serious work to prove it. But i don't understand how this people are even here.
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[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace[M] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I understand you point here, but you need to remove the bulk of your last paragraph. Reply to this comment after you have done so and I will re-approve it.
[–]Cardiscappa 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why?
[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Because it violates the "do not insult RP communities or the users" rule.
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[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hyperbolic sarcasm intended to insult the conduct of users on another RP sub, when their actions are in fact understandable and necessary for them to effectively pursue their goals.
You already have two warnings from a prior situation. Either edit your comment and then reply to this message after you have done so, or move to another thread.
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[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is not a concierge service where you can pick and choose which people 'tend' you.
Last chance to either comply or move on.
[–]MetalDevils1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
I'll reply since you are referring to my comment in part.
There are red flags, things that instantly make a person less desirable. Single mom for women is one example. Mental illness applies to both men and women.
Turns out, the OP of that thread also has depression. If you read the entire exchange, I even say something to the effect of "since you both have depression, you cannot count that as a red flag in a partner because that's hypocritical."
Your example is pretty weak as far as proving your 'feminist' claims.
On another note, if you want to see different content and advice here, then why don't you create it? Whining about wanting things to be different isn't exactly helpful, contributing the kind of material you enjoy is helpful.
[–]DicklessforDuarte[S] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Did you read the part about the majority of responses being positive?, i read the whole exchange, that's part of the positive messages. You don't get to pick what is helpful and what isn't, i didn't make this post to be helpful to you specifically, i made this for me and people like me, i enjoy complains because they push me in the right direction, so i made exactly that.
[–]MetalDevils1 points 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Your own example doesn't hold up according to what you said! The majority of the advice is good, and even the advice in your example ends up being good according to your standards....yet still you are bitching?
If you think advice needs to be given that hasn't been shared, then you should contribute that advice.
Your thread was irrelevant to the sub, which is why /u/laceandsilks removed it...
[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace[M] [score hidden] 8 years ago stickied comment (5 children) | Copy Link
I'm not sure what threads you have read that give you this impression, but it is not an accurate evaluation.
This thread has been removed because it is not actually relevant to the sub, and it's too vague to be of any use.
If you would like to quote specific threads that encapsulate your claims, then we can have a discussion.
[–]DicklessforDuarte[S] -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Not an accurate evaluation? Do you have any data to support your claims?. This post was on the positives, so it must have resonated with someone. You could have asked for clarification, instead of removing my post. This is not how you deal with a community, good luck trying to make this shitty subreddit of wanna be submissives be relevant.
[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Data: I read the bulk of activity on this sub and your claims are false. Advice that is not specifically RP is removed, there are standards for participation.
Women asking for advice are consistently scrutinized and asked to share more about their own faults and shortcomings. Your example with the depression thread has already been addressed by another user.
Your thread has been removed because it criticizes the sub and the content that the community generates. As I said, if you have specific examples other than the depression thread, then you should link them.
If you see content that violates the rules of the community and pushes a feminist agenda, then you need to hit the 'report' button.
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[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looking at your examples, and once again you seem to be harping on things that just don't back up your claims.
This stress thread is absolutely a reasonable balance between 'look at your own conduct,' evaluate his behavior, and do what you can but understand your limits. Relationships are all about vetting for compatibility. At no point is a GF required to 'stick it through' with an unreasonable man or one that she simply doesn't get along with well and understand.
All of that also applies to your second 'example.
I don't know why you are fixated so much on this, because you really seem to not understand that vetting is a process, and advice can still be RPW appropriate but vary in substance from one user to the next.
My advice to you is as follows:
Report comments and threads that violate the community rules.
Write comments and threads that add the quality of content you think is needed and appropriate
[–]LaceandsilksModerator | Lace[M] -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I am reading your comment now, but this is your last warning. Drop the attitude or you will be banned.
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