My friends and I had discussion and I also read on some site (non English) that this lady in her 40s, she claims that when she was younger, going Dutch proved that she was a cool girl and non gold digger. After few years, her friends were married and girls who went Dutch ended up with LVM while girls who didn’t do Dutcharried with a guy who’s mostly HVM.

The reason why you don’t do Dutch is that most guy would take granted of you once you start going Dutch. You’re basically signaling that he is out of your league and guys do not appreciate girls who go Dutch.

Oh this is something universal whether you’re dating Northern European, Central European, American or Asian men. It just is. The person who wants the other person more and pursue has to put in the investment.

Always tell yourself that if a guy doesn’t pay and make an investment, he doesn’t have access to you in any form.