What am I doing wrong, really?

power_cleaner · 2021-02-10T14:33:43+00:00

How were you doing before lockdown?

That’s a stupid lockdown btw. Wtf.

LarsleDarsle · 2021-02-10T14:32:14+00:00

Are you in holland? Try meeting new people on the street if you're in a student city. Girls are begging for attention

Secret_Twitch · 2021-02-10T15:22:13+00:00

I would have to know more about your game and testing strategy to answer your question, but I don't really want to know more. I'll just tell you my most recent tinder success.

I got bored with my rotation 2 months ago and downloaded tinder. I swiped right on about 6 girls and got a match in an hour. We texted for 3 days about random shit. Then I asked her what her favorite drink was from starbucks. Then one cold and snowy night I texted, "How about I pick you up a hot caramel fuckachino and come over and keep each other warm?" I stretch her little pussy out at least once a week since then.

FormerBradFutureChad · 2021-02-10T15:49:25+00:00

I mean does anyone really just say “lets do this on x and x time” and just ghost till the day of?

I had a good laugh when I read this, because this is literally how I met my now-LTR.

The whole point of texting (in the begininning especially) is to get that girl out on a date. After you have a little bit of back and forth, you have to meet up and that's final. Women ~~like~~ need to be lead and this is as direct as you can be. Any girl who says no, doesn't provide an alternative date, or isn't as reciprocating is a girl you need to remove out of your life because they are simply after your validation and your valuable time.

Do you want to be texting women or meeting them? Once you establish logistics, you're done. If you really want, you can shoot a message the day of ~~asking for~~ confirming the time you're coming, but not overall necessary in my opinion and experience.

Afro_Red_Pill · 2021-02-10T19:25:46+00:00

Don't be too hard on yourself, it's fucking horrendous out there right now.

Every guy, RP or not, is finding it super hard to get laid and/or get women out. And it seems the women that do eventually come out are nowhere near the quality you'd usually entertain.

Even out and about it feels like all the hot women have just...vanished. It's kinda eerie. Like they only exist on the apps...or memories.

fourwindsgold · 2021-02-11T01:20:13+00:00

Dating is not easy. You need to raise your SMV a lot. You will never be satisfied until you are at least top 10%. If you don’t have the drive to get there then it will always be an uphill battle with chicks. Its not about texting it hardly matters. Your profile needs to be on point. And so does your insta. You need to be jacked and good looking. Your texting ‘technique’ doesn’t fucking matter if the girls are only ‘so-so’ about you.

TheDero · 2021-02-11T16:32:00+00:00

I'll bet my left testicle that your dating app pics are trash

Title	What am I doing wrong, really?
Author	youngfuture7
Upvotes	2
Comments	18
Date	February 10, 2021 2:18 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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