My boyfriend of 4 months has been very loving, thoughtful and sweet and I'm very happy with him.

We are both in our late 20s and looking to settle down. We're very into music and follow each other on Spotify. He's sent me some of his playlists, including some he'd made years ago, and around a month ago I was on his list of playlists and spotted one that was meant for me but towards the bottom of his list. I was confused as the name of the playlist was his nickname for me, but didn't realise you could order and rearrange playlists that way. I listened to it and it was beautiful.

When I next saw him later that day I brought up that playlist and said it was my favourite one of his a d why was it so low down his list. He got upset and annoyed saying it was a surprise playlist for me athat wasn't yet finished, and didn't realise I was looking through his playlists. he made it private, and recently we listened to a song and he mentioned that this song was in the playlist. I asked when it would be finished and he said by Tuesday but that it annoyed him that id already seen the playlist. I said it was so romantic of him to make a playlist for me and that I couldn't wait to hear it and thanked him... I definitely am not going on his spotify anymore, but when I saw him on Tuesday he said he hadn't finished the playlist and hadn't touched it since I found out about it :(.

I'm quite hurt about this, wish I wasn't...I thought it was so sweet and romantic and now feel terrible. Should I say anything? And if so what should I say?