I’ve been approaching girls, I don’t have the “approach anxiety” now. I can easily walk to a girl and start a conversation but the problem I am facing “what to talk about” or “how to keep the conversation fun”. I am not looking for “THE PERFECT THING TO SAY”. I don’t care about the perfect thing to say because perfect is boring.

Tbh I am not able to express the things I want to ask here in words but I’ll try

Let’s say when I approach girls (because I want to). My focus is always on myself, I am having fun but after like 30-45 seconds of the conversation it becomes dull. I stop having fun, I don’t know what to say, should I say “Woah the sky looks good today”? Or sth retarded?

Here is what I think, I think I am not a really good conversationalist. I am naturally a quite person. Even When I am talking to my aunt, uncle, brother on the phone, I usually give 2-3 word replies and I am dependent upon the other person to lead the conversation. So I think, my question can be summarised as “How to lead the conversation, So you can keep it flowing”?

Any tips or book recommendations will help a lot.