So, i have been on tinder, and seen my ex, who i have a 5 year old son with. She dumped me 1.5 years ago. I thought it wasnt a big deal, she's seeking validation, in the form of a boyfriend or a quick lay. I still think its irresponsible to bang strangers in these covid times when you have a kid, but guess a slut dont care about her own kid.

But then I found out, via a friend, that she has a profile on what is basically a sex site.

People put very explicit pictures up, and type what they are looking for like threesomes and whatever they are into.

Since she said i have damaged her hard by emotional abuse, it could be to seek validation, but in my stomach i kind of know, that whenever my son is at my place, or maybe even when he's at home, she's fucking multiple strangers. If it wasnt for the kid, i wouldnt care. I actually dumped her before she found out she was pregnant, but chose to be together because of the kid.

Now my instinct tells me to text her shes a slut and that she better not fuck around while my kid is there, but i know if i interfere she will get very upset and complain that i try to dictate her life, and maybe limit visitation in any way she can, right now we communicate good about our son. It will be hard looking my kid in the eyes, knowing his mother is a turbo slut who probably has pussy pictures online, although when i pulled her 6 years ago, i got her to send me nudes of course. And my innocent child thinks the world of his mom, so how do i forget this when he mentions her ? And one day he might hear her have sex, she's a loud dirty talker.

I really need some RP insight into this. Is she miserable ? Does she know that she is garbage for banging randoms ?

How do i handle this situation ? Im at peak low smv, fat and bald. Working on the fat situation, the bald situation is to late to change. And i dont have the confidence to bang bitches, yet alone talk to them. Im basically shit at being social at the moment.

Sorry for ranting, but this was my way of getting my mind at ease, knowing some of you have a good response. Or a different viewpoint