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There's a lot of ex party girls/Tinder pros out there in their 30's/mid 30's with a really promiscuous past who are very conscious about the fact they are aging and that their sexual assets are depreciating very quickly.

Every time they look in the mirror... they are reminded that time is running out and if they want to settle down, they gotta do it now, while they are still "kind of" attractive (but that is fading fast) and use any means necessary.

So one thing they do is lie about the amount of people they slept with.

I kind of understand where some of those ex-party girls are coming from but the thing is they are trying to establish a relationship on a BIG LIE. And so many thirsty guys fall for this lie, only to find out the shocking truth later about their sweet and innocent partner. By the time they find out about the lie, they will have been entrapped.

Now there is a saying: "Falsus in Uno, Falsus in Omnibus", False in one thing, false in everything.

If she flat out lies to you when you're not even in a relationship, what is she going to lie about next? Contraception? Can she be trusted?

Is lying about their n count just about making women appear more "pure" than they are or is there something deeper at play here?

Examples:

27 years old GF said she had 50 sex partners, revealed to be triple digits, close to 110: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/as4jbu/gf_27_lied_to_me_m23_about_number_of_partners/

20 years old: said 2 guys, revealed to be between 25 and 35: https://www.reddit.com/r/confession/comments/3pgtfs/i_lied_to_my_boyfriend_about_how_many_guys_ive/