Advice/Divorce/LTR w/Single Mom

Halflotus1 · 2021-02-26T17:47:05+00:00

Step 1: Figure out what you want. Step 2: Do it.

Sounds like you’re ready for step 2.

Yolemmegetsomehelp · 2021-02-26T18:00:26+00:00

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Hypnot0ad · 2021-02-26T18:09:22+00:00

Why do you want to divorce her? Because of her past? How does she treat you now?

vancityboyo · 2021-02-26T18:09:25+00:00

That visceral feeling in your gut is telling you everything. Don’t ever raise another mans children unless they are your brothers/cousins/fathers kids.

NattersOnline · 2021-02-26T20:52:55+00:00

First things first... Get the DNA test to ensure it is your daughter.

Second... Be prepared to lose a lot of $$, assets, everything you busted your ass for in this divorce - as that’s how the system is. Hire a top lawyer, maybe post on other RP forum to see if there are any RP divorce lawyers and hope that you can get out of this without she taking one of your homes or someshit!

Third... Be sure you will have learned from this serious mistake and never make anything similar like this again.

cunningcaring · 2021-02-26T18:22:24+00:00

You married a woman with a kid. We live with the consequences of our decision making. Now you want to flake just like her ex. She needs to stop marrying flakes. You meed to up your decision making.

kdsflyfree · 2021-02-26T18:32:01+00:00

You haven’t said anything about her other than you want a divorce. Is she still attracted to you, and you to her? Is there a chance of saving the marriage?

Divorce is traumatic on children. Her son is the innocent bystander in all this but your infant daughter will also live with the ramifications of divorce.

You fucked up by wifing up a single mom. But now there are children involved.

You sound kind of like a selfish prick to me (the whole post has a “how do I get out of this?” vibe to it). Sounds like you’re looking for permission to split.

You’ll have to decide what you want to do with this mess. Probably divorce will be best for you personally in the long run—you have a lot of growing up to do.

But an honorable man would want what is best for his daughter (yeah I know red pill is morally neutral but the man will have to live with himself). If you are fighting with mom all the time that will be a bad environment for the kids. But I wouldn’t pick a fight just as an excuse.

Bottom line: decide whose interests you are going to prioritize (yours or your daughter’s, or yes, even the boy’s, because like it or not you’re his daddy), then take decisive action reflecting that decision.

Title	Advice/Divorce/LTR w/Single Mom
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	19
Date	February 26, 2021 5:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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