Are men's complains about women & women's complains about men, comparable? Is one more "legitimate" or "valid" than the other?

JB8511R · 2021-01-21T06:05:29+00:00

Women have more valid complaints concerning general life, workplace, culture ect. Sexism is real, it is pervasive in our society, and while things are getting better, we still have a long way to go.

Men are struggling more concerning relationships but women don’t see that due to the apex fallacy. They see the top men pumping and dumping and assume all men are doing that, when it’s really just the top 10%. There’s also the divorce courts siding with women overwhelmingly

2021-01-21T06:02:56+00:00

I gauge legitimacy based on the person making the complaint, not all complaints are equal, and plenty of complaints are self serving prophecies (ex: “girls won’t fuck me” while acting like a fucking weirdo or being pushy as fuck, or “dudes don’t treat me like a queen” while acting like a huge bitch all the time).

Both sides have valid complaints about each other in general, because on an individual level people are flawed and complaints are generally pointing out the flaws in somebody’s personality, ideology, way of life, whatever.

One side doesn’t have an edge, everybody is fucked up on some level, some way worse than others.

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IcarusKiki · 2021-01-21T06:09:56+00:00

Most complaints about either gender as a whole are silly because nobody can change or egalitarianize sexual attraction. But I can see where people can become a bit frustrated when both genders do fetishize things out of the other persons control. Height for the man and youth for the woman.

BlackPorcelainDoll · 2021-01-21T06:19:02+00:00

The answer to me is more the difference in complaining and whining, and the the former is usually treated with a dismissal because it is considered whining. Whether the complaint is subjective or speaks to a more objective basis seems irrelevant since people can still experience stress on the personal level that speaks more so to a clashing of value than systematic problems. There is no right or wrong complaint, but instead the former seeks a solution/resolution while the latter (whining) is a form of cathargic crutch used to put up barriers to confront the problem.

I don't see what gender has to do with anything.

Title	Are men's complains about women & women's complains about men, comparable? Is one more "legitimate" or "valid" than the other?
Author	brilliant22
Upvotes	1
Comments	5
Date	January 21, 2021 5:55 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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