Hear me out on this.
Me and newish, now ex, were doing great for two months. She was easy to train, solid sex, had some reasonable date ideas and always down to come over. Other then a few tolerable attention whoring things were okay.
New Years she lost her shit because she thought I was cheating and called the cops on me, accused me of pushing her. Not getting into too many details but I kinda fell into her frame and argued back after her attention shit test. The accusation and calling cops is obviously a line. Nothing came of it, gave a statement though.
Tldr: I failed shit test, argued, ex took it too far and lied to cops. Nothing came of it.
Since then, two weeks, she's sent me a few messages saying she misses me, and another saying she hopes I'm doing okay. Obviously I'm calling the shots, haven't replied though.
Is this salvageable? I've read on books and will choose to not drink around her, thus should be fine. Maybe I get her to understand that's not right, maybe she apologizes for it, idk. I could say let's talk and take it into a fwb or get back together with some guidelines she'll listen to. Now that I know that's about the worst of it, maybe it's tolerable? As in next time she craving attention, and I'm not drunk, it'll be a small ordeal. I helped her through a lot of stuff as she did me, and Im sure she respects that.
I could do that or just not reply, but it'll be a minute before I find another girl like that. Specially with covid going on.
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