Stop caring she starts chasing

slayerbizkit · 2021-01-15T05:31:57+00:00

When I stop responding to my GF's texts, purposely and accidentally, yes, she chases, worrying about me. She has called me out on it, alot, and hinted heavily at losing interest if this continues. I've corrected course and she's happy again. I would describe myself, as being that one with the avoidant attachment style.

Swordfish1762 · 2021-01-15T12:15:15+00:00

Women who chase are doing it because they need attention and validation. Very seldom do they actually care about you. This is the type of low value women that Red Pill guys are attracted. Why...? Because being chased feeds the RP guys need for attention and validation. Sound familiar...?

Meowrarri8787 · 2021-01-19T07:18:38+00:00

Its not female behavior, its just human behavior.... men are also known to enjoy the chase and children suddenly love toys they never play with as soon as they see someone else holding it. If women are interested in feeling attractive then they will chase and lose interest, if a woman is interested in a connection then obviously this won't happen.

SnooMachines7712 · 2021-01-20T20:25:09+00:00

It's accurate in my old needing to not be single I'd turn into quite the stalker once whoever he was quit calling me.

Unfortunately once she's past the point of thinking of a relationship as her main goal you not calling could also make her assume you don't want her to call either.

ie: "Once you feel you've bothered someone never disturb them again"

I dislike games, I'd rather have honesty.

1v1_ · 2021-01-14T23:31:29+00:00

It's very accurate, assuming the girl has a medium interest level. The thing that they're most likely chasing is your validation because they know it's worth more than a simps one.

Title	Stop caring she starts chasing
Author	zeroicemaze
Upvotes	6
Comments	9
Date	January 14, 2021 10:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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