This one was a big revelation to me lately, for now, I only know what the problem is but I'm not sure how to solve it.

Basically I have no standards, I always agree on everything... I do it genuinely, because I really don't mind. I think it stems from my nice guy syndrome. I've been denying to myself the fact that I'm a nice guy by rationalizing that I'm nice just because I want to and not to please others.

I feel childish being like this, but it's somehow "being myself".. I don't any sense of boundaries, limits or standards. How can I genuinely develop them? it would look so awkward if I forced some boundaries out of nowhere.