Act like a Lady, Think Like a Man by Steve Harvey.

I read this years ago and was reminded of it after the subject of 'waiting 3 months for sex' came up.

Steve actually advocates this in his book. He says that if a man can't wait this long, then he's just not that into you. It's not just about being physical, it's about respect.

He goes into a lot of things that we actually discuss on FDS.

It's worth the read, very insightful and pretty funny.

It helped me through an awful break up and opened my eyes to a lot of red flags and also a lot of green flags.

I met my husband after reading this and put everything I learnt into practice. It worked.