I hate how society and my family have made me feel guilty for not wanting to get married

Cursedwithknowing · 2021-05-21T19:17:00+00:00

They're following their programming. They want you to follow it as well.

silly_birb · 2021-05-21T19:49:12+00:00

Even relationships are worthless

What would she do if you do not commit, fuck another guy?

She did that until yesterday!

baulrog76 · 2021-05-21T20:17:26+00:00

Fuck society

trump4president2024 · 2021-05-21T19:19:10+00:00

The family issue is easily solved by moving away.

Society? That may have been an issue several decades ago, but remaining single (in the USA anyways) is pretty common. In fact more common than getting married. Single is the new norm for a broken America.

Stakinkash · 2021-05-21T20:40:15+00:00

Just wait, watch, and keep consuming redpill content. Remember: focus on becoming financially successful, free, fit/healthy, and happy. Watch yout friends go through the marriage and divorce grinders and see the contrast.

Speaker7 · 2021-05-21T21:00:31+00:00

Take responsibility for your feelings man. No one can make you feel anything. People will absolutely try and shame you for not sticking the your expected role, but fuck em. Maintain firm boundaries at all times. If the person is the least bit rational explain the many reasons why marriage is a bad idea for men, and dismantle their rebuttals one by one. If emotional reasoning is used by either party abandon ship immediately. People that try to argue against facts with feelings are a waste of time.

YesIamAJerkButRight · 2021-05-22T01:29:49+00:00

Stop worrying about it. Just ignore them. Going to be part of your interactions with your family. Just do what my uncle did when I was growing up. He was red pilled before it was a thing.

He would just answer to any female member of the family that "I'll never find someone as wonderful as you" and to any male member He would remind them that there is no pussy like new pussy. I always laughed when I heard that.

CenturianMonk · 2021-05-21T21:08:34+00:00

Soyciety. Forget about it. Told my Mom I had no intent of starting a family. She didn't like hearing that, but a family is unrealistic in the clown world we live in.

techstural · 2021-05-21T21:40:08+00:00

It's true that "blood is thicker than water", but you need to tell them to "kiss my fucking ass!"

ActOutside4853 · 2021-05-21T22:11:19+00:00

He who laughs last, Laughs hardest..

MuchIndependence · 2021-05-22T03:47:37+00:00

Misery loves company. The world is full of idiots who fucked themselves and they'd rather drag you down than have to watch you be free.

Untaught · 2021-05-22T00:01:01+00:00

Most humans are afraid of change and see people who wants a different life as a "treat". This is mainly because it requires them to re-assess their own life. Stand strong and live your life. Most people do not think much about these things and follow the stream not to take the confrontation. We are all different and you be sure to follow your path :)

Canute87 · 2021-05-22T01:47:03+00:00

miserable men love company.

henrysmyagent · 2021-05-22T02:24:16+00:00

Build your empire guilt free.

No woman can help you succeed; most women will impede your success; all women will demand half of your success at the divorce.

ScrutinizeTheStats · 2021-05-22T03:24:47+00:00

When I hear some bs like "it's a shame you aren't going to continue the family line", I ask them, "ok, so if my wife tries to use the government to take my family from me, do you have my back?" After they say no, I say, then shut the fuck up spineless simp trash.

Shimakaze4 · 2021-05-22T05:14:35+00:00

My friends started to give me a bit of shit about being single, I gotta tell you though, they fucking hate it when I start replying with red pill stuff about being married. It shuts them up pretty fast.

mantits- · 2021-05-22T05:54:52+00:00

I’d want to give advice but... idk how really.

For me I really took the concept of going my own way when I first found this ages ago.

I don’t feel guilty for anything I choose, I just accept the now.

However, nothing has ever gotten to me cause I’m so much harder on myself to the point I may be mentally ill... so there’s that lol.

m1ghty_b4g · 2021-05-21T21:19:06+00:00

When you really feel like you don't need such thing as marriage, it doesn't care who tries to ashame you and make you feel guilty. You simply will listen and then turn around.

What I am saying pal is don't worry if others tells you to do it, anyways people who really apreciates you will live you as you want.

YesYesYesVeryGood · 2021-05-22T00:19:07+00:00

Closest way to marrying someone is being in a relationship. That is how most get married. Forcing a marriage doesn't work today.

gimmeabreakfuk · 2021-05-22T00:21:21+00:00

Just take X Person who got a divorce and tell them you dont want to get dicorced

Im having the same issue with my dad, telling me i should marry, while his niece is litteraly divorcing in secret (since divorce is still a taboo here)

They're just in love with idea of you getting married

OkCow8205 · 2021-05-22T08:59:43+00:00

They want you to get married and once you are divorced and living in a cardboard box the same people will say "be a man and suck it up"🤡🌍

beardedbliss · 2021-05-22T11:37:58+00:00

Then stop letting them. Easier said than done but, give it a try. The men in your family are jealous. The women are pissed you aren't married, miserable, and trained. That is all it is.

elfonite · 2021-05-22T12:28:23+00:00

nobody should make you feel bad without your permission!

Frequentbadideas · 2021-05-22T13:26:44+00:00

This is why self study is so important, it gives you bulwarks or mental defense against this kind of thing. The redpill sidebar needs to be replicated here in this forum BADLY.

selfism_mike · 2021-05-22T16:39:22+00:00

Get rid of your family.

Thinkingman21 · 2021-05-22T19:13:58+00:00

Just tell them that you understand they have no higher value of you than as a Human Doing for others (husband, father, work horse provider)..just explain to them that you are a human Being.

You can always ask your parents to sign a contract accepting financial responsibility for divorce if you try marriage and it fails. When they say no, then say you don't accept the risk without any reward either.

Then tell them your going to go do something as a human being.

OkCow8205 · 2021-05-23T07:22:32+00:00

Fuck em

Title	I hate how society and my family have made me feel guilty for not wanting to get married
Author	oozzoonnee
Upvotes	41
Comments	39
Date	May 21, 2021 7:08 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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