Got told I’m desperate

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-05-20T22:03:42+00:00

Who told you so and why do you care what that person says

Meloxian · 2021-05-22T02:26:52+00:00

Agree and amplify, be super clingy and even more desperate

Good luck fam 👍

ClickKlakk · 2021-05-20T22:07:11+00:00

Be pursuing enough women at the same time that when one pulls back, is busy, or literally anything else happens that you would rather not happen, you just let them go and move your attention elsewhere.

TheGreatestSpice · 2021-05-20T23:04:42+00:00

‘You’re desperate!’

‘Of course I am otherwise I wouldn’t be talking to you!’

skunkbear444 · 2021-05-21T02:27:40+00:00

Hit on more girls. Need to be in contact with 3 minimum, 5+ is even better.

Be desperate, use girls to practice on and get it out of your system

All the gurus try to say "I made every mistake in the book so you don't have to" that is all bullshit. You will learn some principles, you need to take action and make mistakes (a shitton) to truly learn the lessons yourself.

You asked how to meet more women, well you need to be around them constantly. Find the best coffee shop near you that attractive women go. Go there for coffee. Where do hot girls get their groceries? Trader Joe's? Whole Foods? Go there. Find the gym where attractive women go to. Work out there. Same with the yogurt place, the bars, the clubs. Join social clubs and attend events with lots of women - art walks, music shows etc.

For online keep getting better outfits, keep getting in better shape, and keep getting better pictures by being your own photographer or hiring one. Get a tripod and take 1000 picutres of yourself. Learn your best angles, try smiling different ways, etc... If you get good have short fun video selfs on instagram when you go out and do stuff.

tetrachromancy · 2021-05-24T05:42:06+00:00

This sounds like you’re too thirsty and probably not calibrated.

We would need more context on what behaviors resulted in this feedback.

Work on your game bro

Vegetable-Ad5980 · 2021-05-21T02:54:35+00:00

Who cares you get laid they don’t.

But one thing to remember never make women the focal point of your existence like most men in these spaces do subconsciously

BBCinParis · 2021-05-20T23:40:22+00:00

Well, are you? What have you done the very moment they told you this? You know the answer therefore stop acting the way you act.

usedtimecapsule · 2021-05-21T04:39:10+00:00

It’s a shit test and you failed.

Agree and amplify or pressure flip.

Title	Got told I’m desperate
Author	OneStepAtATime__
Upvotes	2
Comments	14
Date	May 20, 2021 10:01 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/nhcsjn/got_told_im_desperate/
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