My husband (32M) says that my (30F) needs are not a priority and that he won’t be seeking to address those. Asking that he would consider working on being emotionally available to me. Most importantly to have the ability to resolve conflict, but for other good reasons too obviously. This feels like a formal recognition to me almost. Why even keep me around for this? Feels really unfair that he won’t try. Any advice would be really appreciated. I don’t know where to move here. He’d prefer to live on like this and sweep it all under the rug.

tl;dr

My husband doesn’t want to emotionally have to participant in marriage.