Relationship with plate

ibwriting · 2021-05-22T22:47:59+00:00

I have you have essentially promoted her to a FWB's rather than a plate.

Nothing wrong with it but plates are just for sex and that's it.]

I learned being overt with a girl doesn't really do much since they wanna play the game mainly guys don't for some reason and treat women like EverQuest.

I would say I have a bit of oneitis for this chick and def feel attachment and wondering what I can do. This isn’t my girlfriend, however it’s to the point where I for sure would be bothered if she saw someone else or entertained something else.

If you want a LTR this is the perfect time to start establishing boundaries with the girl. No reward at the end that you dangle in front of her. Thouugh not overtly, more like soft power, attention, admiration, gratitude and such. Those are for you and it's a test for her not you, and this is you setting the frame.

One day that she may have planned with you cancel, it'll be out of the blue to her. See how she responds.

in a situation where my relationship with a plate feels like a relationship however neither of us want that?

This is the girlfriend experience, you're the best for RN. So if she acts out of pocket and you will say something she has the ability to say "yeah but you're not my boyfriend" to whatever you say about her or her behavior.

I;ve been in this situation before more than once, the first time I fucked up by after having a great day with her we were in bed and I had a moment of clarity telling me "Yeah you shouldn't be doing this anymore you have more important stuff to do" then just telling her "we should be friends"

What you're mainly in is the honey moon phase without the relationship label. The real test is how she handles your boundaries and when shit hits the fan is she still in it for you or for something in her means?

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2021-05-23T03:11:31+00:00

Stop seeing her so much and see other girls. Your feels will subside. If you do this suddenly she'll know what's up so do it more gradually if you want to keep her as FWB.

CompetitiveAd4912 · 2021-05-23T11:52:28+00:00

You see her 4-5 days per week you're gonna catch oneitis If you have not already. You have no options because if you had then you wouldn't see her that often. Her attraction towards you can only go down If you keep seeing her that much/go exclusive. You either accept that, go ltr and play on hard mode. Or you look for other girls while spending less time with her

Title	Relationship with plate
Author	The-Hoss62
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Date	May 22, 2021 10:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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