First date, HB 8, 26 iranian, not religious, 100lbs, hinge

First meet I stood her up by accident. she came all the way to me. Very high interest.

I told her "my bad" and we made other plans a week later to meet around her area.

Date went well, got drinks on a terrasse, I made a move to sit next to her half way through and went for the make out no problem (20min).

We walk a little and then end at her place 1h30 after. she said "this is where we part ways" I pull bathroom need.

She msg roommate to fuck off, and we go up. I use bathroom and she is waiting in her room.

I go in and get token asd. She says "I have a question" (probably "what are you looking for?"), I brush it off, she never asked. She says "I want to take things real slow" Make moves and get her down to panties after 20min. She is very stern with "no sex"

I try freeze out and pull out phone (2min) She comes close and puts her hands behind her back. I say "so your hands are tied there" she says "yes" and I remove my boxers. Try to get her to feel it, no dice.

So not I'm nude and she is panties. I've done all moves but she refuses to touch my junk and then I Go for her panties a little too quick on re approach. I get "Ren I told you I'm not doing this on first date" I say "no problem, I can understand a hard no when I hear one" Tell her I should go.

Just as I'm out the door pin her to the wall pick her up and last make out. She says "maybe next time"...

Not sure if butt hurt here or ok.

Feel like I lost major frame...

This was Thursday, I was planning on Texting Sunday during day for next week meet.

Is this a good course? Should I soft next? Am I dead 9n arrival here... I think I flashed Bf coin and now I'm toast...