I have developed my thoughts on the strategies of the toxic (narcissist) female. Forgive me if this turns out to be something someone else came up with but I do believe I came up with most of what I call the "5 D's"

Rev_Irreverent · 2021-05-06T01:31:33+00:00

Dcrazy sex to keep him attached

itookyomilk · 2021-05-06T02:09:31+00:00

Yea the girls in my area must have had the same coach cuz they running the exact same playbook.

DeepCrimsonPill · 2021-05-06T04:58:40+00:00

Since women are hypergamous and solipsistic, they inevitably idealize, devalue, then discard like narcissists.

Idealize - She thinks you are an Alpha, with no needs of your own or will to serve anyone but yourself. She'll throw waves of sex, gifts, and validation when love bombing you so she can secure a high value male.

Devalue - You can't be an Alpha forever. Inevitable, she sees your vulnerablities, the chinks in your armor. She'll start acting passive aggressive, shit-test at full gear, and bring up your weaknesses during arguments. The affection at the start of the phase dries up, and if you bring it up, she'll say you only loved her because of sex/support/validation.

Discard - Its like she never even knew you. You didn't live up to her standards, so she villainizes you to preserve her ego. She might give you the "Lets Be Friends" treatment to hoover around, but will not provide the same bond an actual friend would.

You can see this with women today on the macro scale. Women idealized men in the past to a degree (traditionalism), men start failing their standards and get shit-tested in the present (feminism), and now are increasingly discarded by women into the future (FDS). It should be noted that FDS shouldn't be confused with simply moving on from men, but the end stage after completely devaluing men - they believe men were always out to get them, all men's issues are nonexistent, any man that struggles is a loser, and cackle at any hardships men deal with up to the point of death, upfront they have no sympathy. They serve no benefit to her, therefore they deserve the abuse.

vega-mgtow · 2021-05-06T01:31:02+00:00

0. Use pussy to get her way

hysterical_vegan · 2021-05-06T02:49:26+00:00

You left out the part where they subtly interrogate you to gain all kinds of information about you that they can later twist and use to slander and destroy you when conflict arises.

Bojangles_Hoseman · 2021-05-06T04:05:06+00:00

Gaslighting fits all of those

blississolitude · 2021-05-06T17:41:08+00:00

That didn’t happen.
And if it did, it wasn’t that bad.
And if it was, that’s not a big deal.
And if it is, that’s not my fault.
And if it was, I didn’t mean it.
And if I did…
You deserved it.

Narcissist's prayer

RedditName3000000 · 2021-05-06T01:46:15+00:00

I've typically experienced...

Deny

Bring up something unrelated

Tell me I'm delusional

Bring up a friend who doesn't have to deal with me

Cry & distract

idkbrolol1 · 2021-05-06T13:16:28+00:00

So, I married a narcissist, and she cheated on me. I caught her, and she denied it. I showed proof, and she ran off claiming she was gonna kill herself. I had the cops from 3 different cities looking for her. They found her. She came home, and acted all sweet. Tried to diminish what she did.

Now she's damsel in distress. She asked me to fix the washer, and I said no, and she informed me one of her guy friends will do. I also picked up my daughters and my youngest brought an unopened ring doorbell out. I looked at it, and my ex wife says "oh yeah one of my guy friends brought this, for safety"

Fancy-Ad657 · 2021-05-06T22:52:37+00:00

don't forget the SIGN language

Shame

Insult

Guilt

Need to be right

me-dgaf · 2021-05-06T21:00:32+00:00

Based. The 5-D's of thots.

BeerPlusMeEqualsHapy · 2021-05-08T09:17:13+00:00

Those are at least some of the "D's" most women partake in.

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