I’m in college and I have very high social value. My best friends I live with are either in top frats or athletes. Beyond them, I have countless other friends/acquaintances. I let my high school aged sister come visit and had one of my female friends show her around. As soon as the people they interacted with found out she was my sister she received the royal treatment. She was in awe of how respected I am. The issue is the fact that compared to my friends, I am definitely the lowest value of the bunch. I live with 4 buddies, one of which is absurdly wealthy, another is a 6’7 basketball player, a 6’5 soccer player and the other is currently dating the hottest girl at the school. For comparison, I am a 5’9, 165 pound kid who quite frankly I’d retarded when it comes to girls. I’ll also be honest, I thought I was a decently attractive 7, but I feel like a 4/5 who is just fit. I still have a ton of respect both for and from these kids who I view as the top of the food chain. I’m a fit, very bright, charismatic kid, who like I said has a great deal of respect across the school but naturally I am the after thought of the bunch. I really struggle in bars/clubs as I think I’ve gotten several choosing signals but I’m too worried about being rejected . Say what you want about confidence, but getting rejected in front of my buddies as well as the entire campus community terrifies me. I never had a real lack of confidence, but I’m not pulling these chicks my friends are and it’s starting to weigh on me . I know it’s a bad thing to compare but I can’t help it when my best friends are pulling 9s and I’m working to pull 6s at a much lower rate. I’m just frustrated because I feel like I’m doing everything correctly (very high social value, focusing on school work and trying to stay reasonably in shape while living off alcohol and McDonald’s). I just have not been able to convert the success in all of the other aspects of my life into women, which is starting to really hurt my confidence. Because of covid, I am currently off campus in a major major city, and there’s tons of opportunities (granted I regret blowing the vast majority of them). However, next year myself and my buddies are forced to return to our small campus. Given the amount of hugs and dap-ups I get in the clubs I’m not exaggerating when I say my roommates and I will be kings on campus next year. We have thrown 100+ people parties and a number of guys and girls are constantly asking us to come hang out at our off-campus house. Still, from an objective perspective, I am the lowest value of my core friends and being on a very tiny campus in the middle of nowhere the options for fuckable girls are few and far between. Do I just put my goggles on and fuck uglier chicks than I would have in HS? Do I go monk mode for an entire year? I feel like my respectable natural characteristics along with my social status should be locking me into multiple plates, but it’s a week before summer vacation and I don’t have a single girl on the roster. I know one-itis is real, but my elite university definitely has a lot of girls who actually are not complete whores and are similarly focused on their ambitions. Is a stooping down and securing a LTR who is objectively less attractive than I am the play considering the lack of candidates? Any/all advice or criticism is extremely appreciated, gents.
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