I'm fat, but I don't want to take responsibility. Body positivity nonsense I guess.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2021-05-01T09:15:34+00:00

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Primary reason: this doesn't meet rules 5 or 9. She's not seeking commitment, but has a relationship already.

Secondary reasons: from rule 7:

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The point of using archive.is for articles instead of a screenshot of just the headline and leading blurb is so that we can see the whole thing.

Land_of_the_Losers · 2021-05-01T05:22:05+00:00

a woman looking like a woman

Sure, all women look like the recliner-bound spaceship passengers from Wall-E. It's perfectly normal and healthy to be able to descend but not ascend a flight of stairs.

Thinguy123 · 2021-05-01T05:40:52+00:00

Woman looking like a woman

I dislike their sneaky and not-so subtle implications that if you don't like "real women" then you like "little girls" (stupid attempt to shame you and get you away from younger women), as if "if you dont find me attractive you must like little girls",

I'm 28, and women older than me (or around my age) try to shame me when i say my preferences, they suddenly pull the "wow, you seem like a weirdo/creep/predator/groomer/whatever you wanna call it" because i only bother with girls 18-24.

As if that would have any effect,i already was called a weirdo for other reasons, (notably keeping my thoughts to myself, having interests in videogames and history) when i was in college, now i'm creepy for entirely different reasons, but both are about shaming you into doing what they want, and not what you want.

BobbingForBunions · 2021-05-01T06:08:45+00:00

I was much thinner when we first met and have since gained a little weight.

Define "little." lol

Confluence_2 · 2021-05-01T06:18:45+00:00

a woman looking like she gives zero fucks about her appearance and would rather complain than count calories and God forbid, go to a gym.

Fixed that for them.

I also hate this rhetoric where slobs act as if weight is something that cannot be changed about a person. I've seen other women say weight is like height or skin color. It's not. "Set point" is something a fat fuck made up to make themselves feel better about not being able to control their eating habits.

AngryCockOfJustice · 2021-05-01T06:14:23+00:00

Just looked at her photos and whoa. If she's nauseating at 30 then I can imagine how she'd look and behave when she's 40. These chicks better be dropped in a minefield for such rancid behavior.

COVID900 · 2021-05-01T06:23:49+00:00

they have so many ways to avoid saying fat, dont they

Old_snowboarder · 2021-05-01T07:17:31+00:00

The BF should dump her. I had a GF once who put on weight. I told her plain and simple lose the weight or I'm out of here and she knew I wasn't joking. She lost the weight.

meerita · 2021-05-01T08:10:12+00:00

Another display of female delusion and deception. They will first deceive themselves into body positivity but at the same time they will start changing their original look to look younger and sexy. The funny is they will never be that again and it will create a trauma. They will not be able to be anywhere without makeup or clothing that fakes another body and when it’s too obvious then they will bring up the body positivity card to avoid accountability

Joh_Ghurt · 2021-05-01T09:11:16+00:00

Just met a - now single - guy in the the late 40ies. His story seems to be quite typical:

Married for a over 10 years. Both get older and fatter.

He had a scare because his older brother started to develop an addiction to heart-surgeries as a patient.

Went to the doctor who told him the usual fat guys are told: You go on like this, look at your brother and see your future. The alternative: Less stress, loose weight, get fitter, and eat some tablets for the rest of your life.

Being an engineer, he took it seriously and approached a a technical problem. Nothing crazy, just cutting back his hours at work (80% instead of 120%), a moderate diet by eating more selectively, cutting back on the alcohol and starting to cycle religiously at least 4 times a week. Two years later, he looks and feels better than for a long time.

As he was married and his wife could use something similar, he tried to make it a project for both of them as a couple. In the beginning she showed some willingness, but she didn't like cycling and went for Yoga and the gym instead. But it seems she complemented her diet with some buckets of ice-cream and chocolate while her gym sessions became yoga-sessions only which seems to consist to a large part of drinking healthy smooties at the gym-bar with her classmates. Two years later, she gained just as much weight as any year before.

Because he showed signs of success and she didn't, she became more and more resentful and abusive. In the end, she divorced him because he didn't meet her emotional needs any more.

You can guess the rest. He's happily dating around now, takes care of himself and is a nice bloke to meet. She's just waddling through her life complaining about the injustice of life. That's where you find the good men.

Tap-Apart · 2021-05-01T07:23:24+00:00

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CondensedBemusement · 2021-05-01T07:43:56+00:00

What Annalisa should have said in response to the letter:

It might be the fact that you look like a bag of shit now, but you expect him to keep fucking you ... and the only way he can manage that is by thinking of someone who actually looks good.

Soon enough he'll realise that instead of pretending to be fucking someone who actually looks good ... he can dump your barge-arse and ACTUALLY fuck someone who looks good.

silly_birb · 2021-05-01T08:38:37+00:00

"You are fat" was a statement, not a question

IceCorrect · 2021-05-01T09:10:17+00:00

Even for me, as not native speaker. Much thinner =/= little weight

Title	I'm fat, but I don't want to take responsibility. Body positivity nonsense I guess.
Author	gintoki_
Upvotes	61
Comments	29
Date	May 1, 2021 5:02 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
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