Improving my value

orangerose18 · 2021-04-24T03:09:30+00:00

Never stop vetting until you’re married. I trust that you believe your fiancé is a good man, but you’re extremely young. I’m only 21 and 19 is NOT an age where most unscarred women are mature enough to make this significant of a life decision. Be kind, not naive.

Finish college.

You seem like you already try to be the best fiancée you can be which is great. Eat healthy and work out. Maintain good relationships with your friends and family. Wishing you health and happiness.

MirriMazDuur · 2021-04-24T05:39:13+00:00

You improve for yourself, for your quality of life and for those you share your life with. After that, you improve for your so. You improve yourself as a person by finishing college, having and holding a job with good wotk ethic and good relationships. You improve yourself by moving out of your parents house and living on your own for a while. Getting engaged at 19 doesn't mean much but naive emotions

JazziestCabbage · 2021-04-24T16:09:37+00:00

I don't agree with everything others are saying (I think getting engaged is fine, just don't tie the knot anytime soon.), but going to college is very important in case things don't work out, you'll need skills, you'll need a higher education, you'll need to be able to earn your bread. I'm 21 and engaged, my fiance and I are both in college and I plan on graduating and working for a few years before having any kids or getting married (will be at least 25)

ErenYDidNothingWrong · 2021-04-26T01:12:53+00:00

Do others enjoy your cooking? If so cook him his favorite meal sometime. Do you share any hobbys with him? Try to find something to do together

hisangelforever · 2021-04-26T13:06:50+00:00

In my opinion a good way to mature fast without the presence of adversity would be to dig more into yourself. Learn about the past, why did things happen, what was your reaction to them and why. What do you want from life. Do you place a lot of value on how others see you and if so why. Are you living life on your own terms or trying to please others. I'm 29 and when I was 19 I had no idea who I was. I lived my life according to the wishes of others. I was manipulated by everyone around me and kept attracting the same people and situations time after time. When I turned 20, I had a very difficult year, I had to go and live in Spain as part of my college/uni degree and it was hard. I didn't learn from it until years later when I looked back and realised all the mistakes I had made. I guess what I'm trying to say is, the more you live the more you learn. Seek experiences!

AnnualFennel · 2021-04-25T02:28:57+00:00

you could lose some weight and learn new recipes.

QuixicalTexit · 2021-04-25T02:07:19+00:00

I am 44 year old high earning male. I feel totally betrayed by my parents and society. All of the reason's society gives to not settle down young and have a family are culturally self-destructive. If you have a hard workingman having children is great fun for both men and women. Every partner you have you lose value in men's eyes. MEN DON'T WANT EDUCATED successful women. We want happy young fertile women who are agreeable and help AT HOME.

KingAtom1 · 2021-04-25T04:07:52+00:00

Finish school in case things don’t work out, however if you’re going to be working, don’t expect him to be the sole provider and pay for everything.

Title	Improving my value
Author	baby-rose92
Upvotes	31
Comments	24
Date	April 24, 2021 2:38 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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