I get it somewhat. I'm 29, average height, handsome (thankfully), going bald (grr -- shaved for now, will have to bic in future), in shape, good career, building my own business.

It would seem I have a few things going for me, but none if it matters when I consider my GF or women I'm dating could be with Chad Thundercock and will only settle for me as they begin to hit the wall.

Women nearing 30 or over always want me in a relationship. I'm not overlooked by the younger crowd, but it does feel like more of a struggle.

I'm seeking therapy so hopefully that will help with some of this, but does anybody have any advice on how to reconcile these insecurities? No matter who I'm with I always assume they will leave me for someone 'better'. I build resentment, I go cold, I break their hearts and then I leave (before they leave me).