Looking for advice from guys who’ve been around the block.

I do well for myself. Fit, smart, funny. I’ve got no problem talking to women most of the time. I noticed though that when I’m talking to girls I consider bombshells, it’s like we’re speaking two completely different languages. Our senses of humor don’t click, and communication problems often occur.

Now, I know this is partly because my ambitious professional goals pushed me past my peers in some ways that make it harder to relate with some of them. How can I relate to hot girls without spending my time the way they do (which doesn’t align with my personal values)? Will money fix it? I’m inclined to say no because many of these hot girls come from money. If you have evidence to the contrary, I’d love to hear it.

And before you get all uppity, no I don’t go around trying to prove how smart I am to everyone. I’m not autistic. This isn’t a problem I want to have.