This girl used to be very interested in me but i started acting BP/beta(lost frame/power, didnt escalate, oneitis, etc.) and she lost interest obviously. Things didnt work out between us, but she stuck around due to being in my social circle.

I'm pretty much over the oneitis now and I realise she is just trying to get me to be another one of her orbiters. I dont bother texting her, I only speak to her in person along with other friends. Don't want anything serious with her, plate at most.

Did I fail her shit test by giving her my jacket? She asked to wear my jacket but she was expecting me to not give it to her, as in the past when she was interested I would never give her it(I think I read somewhere not to lol??). My rationale at the time was to give her it to remain indifferent. But looking back it feels pretty bp now.

what is RP advice on giving girls your jacket?

I'm going back and reading the sidebars again, is there anything in specific I should read or any advice to not be an orbiter is appreciated.

Cheers guys!