It seems like in American culture, we party hard and do it all socially when we are in high school and college but after that, we get serious and turn into modern day Purtians. Partying is "immature", you're "too old" to be sleeping around, it's time to "be a man" and marry that post wall girl who slept around in her adolescence and early 20s.

I also find that in terms of dating, it is very weird in the USA to date a hot 21 year old when you're in your 30s. The ageism is very real and a lot of the hottest girls in their early and even mid 20s will often pick guys near their age who are attractive over guys in their 30s. Now obviously this changes if we're talking latinas and Asian girls but it is definitely true for your typical All American girl.

Now I talk to my European friends who are in their 30s, they party hard, they sleep around, and there is no issue with it. One of my friends is a Swedish guy who says it is very common for people in his country to enjoy their 30s, everyone is so laid back socially.

All the while, in the USA there seems to be a witch hunt against guys like Dan Bilzerian.

It makes me wonder, if you want to enjoy your 30s as a bachelor, do you have to leave the USA? Is it impossible to enjoy your 30s as a bachelor in the USA?