You do NOT show your weak side to women

Sunset_Paradise · 2021-04-04T00:17:07+00:00

If some needs to ask their partner to show their feelings, something is wrong. They should be making you feel safe enough that you can be vulnerable and proving they are trustworthy.

No the signs of emotional abuse and if it happens, leave. You deserve better. Don't waste your time on someone who doesn't respect you.

Haunting-Ad-5945 · 2021-04-03T21:00:38+00:00

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BigHardDkNBubblegum · 2021-04-04T03:02:39+00:00

I'm a "handsome" man, and it is certainly not in my nature to "look weak", I don't give a damn what women say about how men should act or behave.

The type of men women are attracted to are completely different than the type of men they want as "friends", coworkers, buisness partners, or every day acquaintances.

Any sign of weakness is detrimental to a man's reproductive fitness, which is just the proper scientific way of saying "sexual attractiveness to women". Women don't get horny over weak men. It completely flies in the face of human sexuality.

But... the men whom they're NOT attracted to? They DO want those guys to be weak, you know why?

So they have an easier time manipulating people they have to interact with on a daily basis 🙄

Seriously, dont ever listen to what women say they want in a man. Most wont admit the truth, but you'll know its the truth every single time if you're actually able to give it to them.

functionalsociopathy · 2021-04-03T21:25:40+00:00

When they say that they don't actually mean share your feelings, they mean cry at the end of shallow rom"com"s. The type of woman who can accept actual vulnerability from her significant other is also the kind of woman who would never pressure them to do so. In short: basic bitches are basic, quality women are rare.

DoorIntoSummer02 · 2021-04-04T03:45:04+00:00

I don’t understand how a woman can be so soulless towards somebody she loves. If my man were to cry in front of me, damn straight I’d be giving him hugs and all the comfort he needs. Even if he’s having a bad day I always tell him he can talk to me. Hell even just the thought of him sad breaks my heart. I don’t understand it at all how some women can act that way.

MarquisdeSeda · 2021-04-04T03:06:58+00:00

Feminism is is a disease: it’s just like racism and sexism. The term toxic masculinity is the latest disgusting despicable degrading - ill say again disgusting- term they came out with. You really need to keep your eyes out when you’re dealing with a woman; They are being more and more brainwashed to be toxic.

sausage4mash · 2021-04-04T08:56:09+00:00

Truth bombs from op

Pi11sy · 2021-04-04T00:16:32+00:00

Women would usually just say that to make people think they’re good people

AnielloFico4 · 2021-04-03T22:48:38+00:00

If you're gonna cry in front of a women make sure it's about something that matters and make sure you do it in front of the right women some bitches are wack.

throwawaygoodvibess · 2021-04-04T05:55:46+00:00

The two times I’ve ever shown any emotion outside of stoicism to girls/women, we basically went separate ways after. Aka they kinda distanced themselves. And once I noticed she was different after, I accepted the distance, and widened it.

Only your mother may accept emotions or feelings from you. Maybe a female doctor or something like that. Someone who’s getting paid to care or help. If they’re not gaining anything, they 9 times out of 10, do not give a shit. At least in my experience and my second hand experience (of other gents).

beniesixx98 · 2021-04-04T07:21:56+00:00

My fiance shows his feelings to me all the time just like tonight, he's worried about his oldest brother. If you can't show feeling because your s.o will try to use it against you, then leave. I couldn't imagine if my fiance couldn't trust me like that.

Ralph_Marbler · 2021-04-04T07:22:07+00:00

I think I might just give up on getting a girlfriend and remain single for a long time.

I need to take care of myself first.

Ricksalab89 · 2021-04-04T13:21:54+00:00

I would also add imo that it is kind of empowering to understand how women are instinctually. It isnt a bad thing when you have these realizations. Like this post man truly. If anyone is interested, I recently started a yt channel that talks about how to be happy even with women in your life. I know a lot of guys, me included, have found themselves wondering how to be happy with women in today’s climate. Link to channel below, sub if you enjoy!

https://youtu.be/V37lAoOb-Bk

d_nijmegen · 2021-04-03T20:54:22+00:00

You can open up no problem. But do it in a manly frame.

Let's say, you want her to have more sex.

The bad way is, trying everything to please her and hope she'll put out. Or get defensive or beg for it.

The better way would be.

In our relationship lately I've found that we have been distant in the bedroom. I want you to know that that bothers me. When we got together we vowed to be exclusive. That means that we are responsible for both our happiness in the bedroom.

I'm not asking for a quick fix or that you do what you don't want. I'm just letting you know that how things are going now is not satisfactory to me. I would like to talk to you about this when you've had time to think about it for a while. Maybe tonight? I'll bring it up later.

This is everything you wanted to say from a position of strength.

My two cents

MangoAway17 · 2021-04-04T01:15:52+00:00

Men are NOT just banks! Women are so clearly sexist, yet they think we’re the sexist ones. Come on

CelticHound27 · 2021-04-04T16:03:22+00:00

As someone who had their heart on their sleeve and is shit with their emotions due to a disability only ever show your feelings to people you truly know and trust.

TessaBrooding · 2021-04-04T07:33:08+00:00

If a guy I’m starting to date cries on our third date, meh.

If my boyfriend admits weakness, fear, or cries in front of me, I see it as a sign of trust and maturity. Little boys are most adamant about being macho machines whose only emotion is anger. Grown ups deal with and share their emotions. If you won’t be honest with your partner, why even call them a partner?

apocalypticalley · 2021-04-04T11:21:50+00:00

The fact that you actually think showing emotion makes you weak proves that you are actually weak with or without showing emotions. You dudes need serious therapy.

2021-04-04T13:44:31+00:00

I won’t cringe so idk what you mean.

Title	You do NOT show your weak side to women
Author	Haunting-Ad-5945
Upvotes	341
Comments	42
Date	April 3, 2021 8:45 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/mjgwjm/you_do_not_show_your_weak_side_to_women/
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