Quick question for you Gurus. I have no problem hooking up with girls and banging them, at least 15 hookups this year so far.

Problem is that I seem to have trouble past the initial seduction and can't get them hooked onto me. They all end up disappearing a couple weeks or dates later.

I have managed to keep a couple girls interested but apparently all I needed to do with those ones to keep them on the line was to make them cum a few times and then never ever contact them. One of them wrote me a three page love letter after no contact for four months...

I wonder if I should do a similar no contact rule for the girls I do like hooking up with? (I've tried to keep communication at an absolute minimum to decrease neediness, 3 day rule etc, but controlling my impulses to text back feels needy as well...)

TL:DR; the girls I want to keep banging disappear and the girls I don't give two shits about won't leave me be. Any tips or tricks to keep them invested would be great.