When she says "You are fine the way you are." ?

AlfredApple · 2016-10-26T00:00:36+00:00

girl I went on one date with, it fizzled out, but we remained friends in class

She has no sexual attraction to you and thus does not give a fuck about the physical state that you are in. This is the same as your mate showing off his modified WRX, you don't care for Subaru's and you telling him "it looks cool man".

MyTrapsCauterize · 2016-10-26T00:07:46+00:00

Girls don't want men to change, ever. They definitely don't want you to fake being attractive by changing yourself in a way that might attract her (hamster logic). In her mind, no matter what you do to your body you'll be a sexless blob so there is no reason to change. You're nobody, so it's pointless to try. Why the fuck are you getting advice from some chick who doesn't like you anyway? Stop orbiting the bitch and find more productive ways to spend your time (I say as I post on reddit).

Tiway22 · 2016-10-26T01:40:18+00:00

It means she is comfortable with who you are and where you stand in relation to her. She is also expressing that if you keep lifting and get more cut she will feel more attracted to you, and beneath you.

All girls say this. They dont want men they know to outgrow them and get hotter girls than them.

I had a girlfriend who said she doesn't care about appearances or abs or muscles. A few months later when I had been working out religiously guess who couldn't keep their hands off me.

Mr_ghostslayer · 2016-10-26T01:47:43+00:00

I have a good body and most girls say to me things like 'you look good' 'do girls comment on your body' 'i like your abs/arms or chest' 'do you take steroids'

If i say i feel out of shape they say 'out of shape to your standards' 'you dont need to go to the gym all the time!'

Never have a heard you 'look fine'- but dont think about it too much. Assume she could be both attracted/being nice or not attracted. Either way you should game her still the same

You will find out soon if she really is attracted to you i.e she will touch you alot.

In the meantime, keep shredding and try avoid YOU bringing up the topic of gym related stuff girls dont dig that unless they are bodybuilders

sesasees · 2016-10-26T02:32:06+00:00

Slightly off topic but can you link to the supplement? Thanks

quicklogaccount · 2016-10-26T00:48:44+00:00

It means what she meant. For the purposes she has for you, you are fine. She doesn't think you should look for more from her, so, you are fine the way you are as far as she can tell. Lame, but AWALT.

But if she shows opposition and makes efforts to prevent you from achieving your goals, be wary. That's common, but it's worse and more dangerous than your regular awalt, most likely someone you don't want around you.

BestSC86 · 2016-10-26T12:47:39+00:00

She wants to keep you as an orbiter...she is not your friend.

Tell her this afternoon, that you took her advice to heart and are glad that she thinks that "you are fine just as you are", so you would like for her wing you with her hot friends.

She will refuse, of course, because she doesn't really think you are fine as you are..

Title	When she says "You are fine the way you are." ?
Author	GenjiNeedsNerf
Upvotes	6
Comments	11
Date	October 25, 2016 11:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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