No, I haven't been hurt by anyone and I haven't been cheated on before so relax before attacking me. But anyway, I'm sure that no one will be able to respond to this other than by personal attacks, insults, making fun of me, downvotes, etc. Because you deeply know on the inside that I'm right, the truth hurts and you just can't respond to my arguments.

Anyway, I think getting into a relationships in general as a man nowadays is just asking to get shit on. The reason for that is, women have no loyalty or commitment unless they're forced by hard marriage laws. They don't really love men the way men love them, and as soon as they find someone even slightly better the previous guy will be as if he never existed at all.

I concluded this after observing women's behavior and how men and women act after breaking up. Men will generally take long to get over it and even after getting into a new relationship with someone better it will always be stuck in their head somewhere. Women though? As soon as they find someone better then it will be as nothing happened at all. They usually cry a bit at first for attention, but then they mysteriously get over it very easily. When they're genuinely hurt, it's because the man was a "catch" to them and it's hard to find someone who can compare, but if he's "not that special" they actually feel relieved.

I think if u truly want to get into a successful relationship, you have to be the best men among all the people you know. You have to literally dwarf them in looks, height, money, status, personality. You have to maintain that privilege and never show any kind of weakness, just as if you're an inhuman programmed robot. Which is obviously borderline impossible for most men as we're not soulless robots designed to be perfect, we're just humans, but women nature and entitlement can't comprehend that.

At the end, dealing with women for anything other than sex is just asking for pain. They're extremely entitled, disloyal and toxic. And no matter how much you try, the moment someone better comes along, it will all be for nothing.