Just had a random though as it relates to my previous relationship that ended in her cheating/monkey-branching:

Generally speaking, in LTR’s (mine was 5 years with her) many men get a bit unmotivated, may hit the gym with less intensity, indulge in food/drinks, and overall just lose sight of abundance and “it’s only your turn” mentality. Many forget that they should always foster an attitude of “I can leave any minute and be cool with it”.

Prior to discovering RP, I was doing many things subconsciously, despite losing frame on occasion. One thing I absolutely was doing was dread game. I hit the gym hard as hell, kept to a somewhat strict regimen/diet, upped my fashion sense, and did many other things that would raise my SMV, including certifications and promotions at work. I also would keep a friendly demeanor around women, and my ex knew women wanted me. This, along with her issues (cluster B for sure, if not narcissistic outright) made her very insecure, but possibly to the point where she monkey-branched/cheated, kind of like trying to beat me to the punch? (I never cheated nor attempted to do so - was pretty happy with our intimacy and overall time together).

I’m just trying to learn from my past experience, so that next time I play “RP on hard” (LTR) I won’t overplay my hand.

My question is, is it possible to overplay dread game in LTR? I kissed her ass sometimes and treated her very well, but I also maintained independence, increased SMV, and wasn’t afraid to subliminally let her know I had abundance (non-verbal, Ofcourse).