Question for Men of the sub

charlieputh45 · 2021-06-03T22:58:05+00:00

I could write an essay but one thing I’ll say is stop saying “Body positivity” but then make fun of guys who have a small penis 😑

lalala477 · 2021-06-04T00:22:21+00:00

First, dating has become very difficult. Feminists propoganda has disseminated every part of society. Although the following may seem shrill , as a result of this, many women have become useful idiots for feminists. In articles such as vogue among other publications which target young women, feminist propoganda is repeated

This article explains this very well:

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/hpbibo/justice_for_men_and_boys_how_campus_feminists/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Why aren’t there more women in leadership positions? Women have different priorities in life: https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/09/12/is-opting-out-the-new-american-dream-for-working-women/amp/

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ii9r3m/it_seems_that_there_are_fewer_girls_in_stem/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Also many women want to date up. Men have been decreasingly leaving college. This has been shifted as a women’s issue as feminists will say there aren’t enough financially viable men.

https://ifstudies.org/blog/better-educated-women-still-prefer-higher-earning-husbands

When the woman becomes the breadwinner the chance of there being a divorce skyrockets. In addition it’s been found that female breadwinners are more controlling of financial assets than men are. Women initiate 70% of divorces. Why does the chance of a divorce skyrocket? This is due to the fact that women do not see men who make less money than them as attractive

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/n6j9av/study_are_men_intimidated_by_highly_educated/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/nn29ha/we_found_that_ratings_of_attractiveness_were/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

2 domestic violence

Despite what one may think. The majority of domestic violence is not male on female. In 1971, Erin Pizzey opened one of the first women’s centers in the UK. She found that the majority of the women there were just as violent as the partners they described. She later found out that these women were experiencing violence not because their husbands were beating up on them but because they were beating up on their husbands and after a while their husbands would strike back

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/gqdcdj/women_rape_men_almost_as_often_as_men_rape_women/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/f2dxp3/domestic_violence_against_men_during_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/cofag7/a_big_compilation_of_arguments_and_statistical/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9870t5/even_international_research_shows_that_partner/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

3-The vote

The vote was related to the draft. Men got the vote in 1848 after the Mexian-American War. Fear of the draft was the very reason why many women were against. The vote. I should also add women weren’t the most emotionally supportive to men and the trauma they experienced:

http://nomoremisandry.blogspot.com/2015/08/women-shamed-men-into-fighting-in-civil.html?m=1

Some common gender myths and their rebuttals

It seems like the same discussions come up around Reddit a lot, so I figured I'd gather up some common topics, and their rebuttals.

Many of these arguments can be expanded with more points and sources but I'm trying to keep this as compact and to the point as possible.

Myth 1: "Sexism against men is never institutional or systematic"

Many forms of sexism and discrimination against men are explicitly institutionalized or systemic in society.

Examples include police violence, court biases, incarceration, child custody discrimination, military service, educational biases, health research and spending, insurance, housing discrimination, reproductive rights, bodily autonomy rights, and many others.

The widespread ignorance and denialism around these issues can itself be interpreted as a form of systemic discrimination against men as well.

Note that some of these are institutional because they boil down to statutory legal rights which exist in the realm of government policy and administration. And the government is obviously an institution.

Myth 2: "Most politicians and CEOs are men, and this has led to a society that privileges men and disenfranchises women"

The fact that many positions of formal power are occupied by men does not translate into measurable privileges for the average man.

The assumption this is based on is the idea that men have an in-group bias and prefer other men over women.

Which is an idea that has been debunked over and over again in the academic literature. The gender bias among men is almost zero, and sometimes manifests as an out-group bias sightly in favor of women, not other men.

Toy_Soldier_Ken · 2021-06-03T21:15:26+00:00

Are you a feminist?

40moreyears · 2021-06-03T21:49:38+00:00

Stop perpetuating the notion that a circumcised penis looks better or whatever else that normalizes boys getting cut without their permission.

Muh-So-Gin-Knee · 2021-06-03T21:58:48+00:00

Wives not using sex as a weapon would be great!

Total-Lawfulness3865 · 2021-06-03T22:38:40+00:00

Wamen shud stop komplaning aboat smol pp, size no matta, Hakuna Matata. ~Wise Git

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-06-03T23:04:59+00:00

A few things jump to mind:
Work toward ending circumcision as the default and preferred setting in the culture. As long as women want it, or are perceived to want it, the sub servant men will enable it.

Read your history to discover it's not 10,000 years of victimology of Men v Women but instead a survival and dominance based cycle of expansion, contraction, conflict, and rebirth which women did indeed do more than stay at home pregnant and having children. It indeed sucked for everyone involved.

Be mindful of that which you have, that which you are, and stop comparing yourself to others. To stop living in an "arms race" mentality with other women. To regain a sense of self and realism about your existence. To find joy in being alive.

TrilIias · 2021-06-04T00:52:09+00:00

This applies to men too, but just do what you can to end circumcision, even if that just means refusing to circumcise any sone you might have.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2021-06-04T11:34:59+00:00

Be more emotionally independent and gentle with us.
Our emotional system is as fragile to you as your muscles are to us.

Azuzu88 · 2021-06-04T16:14:29+00:00

Just accept that men have problems too and that we're not magically more privileged than they are.

2021-06-04T16:16:14+00:00

Help us to fight against wokeness

Potato-with-guns · 2021-06-04T22:33:19+00:00

Stop the “men are obese women are plus size” you are all just fat, deal with it.

TailsTheFox_ · 2021-06-05T13:43:32+00:00

I wish these days women would not look down on a man for having emotions and expressing them. A man will be described weak if he shows any emotions. You know, we have feelings too.

Question for Men of the sub

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2 domestic violence

Myth 1: "Sexism against men is never institutional or systematic"

Myth 2: "Most politicians and CEOs are men, and this has led to a society that privileges men and disenfranchises women"

Myth 7: "Men make more money because of their gender, and this is evidence of male privilege"

Myth 14: "Most child abusers are men"

Myth 12: "Most men's activists just hate women or are opposed to feminism. They don't really care about men."

Myth 8: "Men don't go to the doctor because of toxic masculinity"

Myth 9: "Men don't speak up about sexism as much as women, so it's obviously not as big of an issue"

Myth 10: "Most men's issues are caused by men themselves"

Myth 11: "Toxic masculinity is harming men and their mental health"

Myth 13: "Men don't receive custody of their children because they're bad fathers and don't bother requesting custody"

Myth 14: "Most child abusers are men"

Myth 3: "Women were uniquely oppressed in history compared to men"

Myth 4: "Domestic violence and sexual assault are primarily women's issues"

Myth 5: "False allegations are extremely rare"

Myth 6: "Men commit suicide more often than women, but women still attempt suicide more often than men"

Title	Question for Men of the sub
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Date	June 3, 2021 9:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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