I've had a lot of conflicting advice on pickup. The main conflict is whether to go in direct or play it cool and keep plausible deniability.

I understand at some point you need to be polarising to get her to decide if she is attracted to you or not. I'm honestly curious though what people with experience thinks works better.

There is a lot of stuff on TRP about being the best 20% in the room but not a lot about gaming. I'd like to see trpgame make a comeback for this sort of stuff.