Why do people make fun of male virgins

Bguy88 · 2021-06-01T18:41:26+00:00

Basically, to keep them in the platation.

altair43 · 2021-06-01T19:00:57+00:00

Simple, its makes them feel good about themselves. The "I am better than you" complex. It also helps them to sleep at night. Their life is messed up already.

Another reason, most of them are weak. They feel better when they belong to a group. For them it's better to be miserable, surrounded by similar people, than being miserable alone. It's a coping mechanism.

Stakinkash · 2021-06-01T20:15:27+00:00

For most normal men, being a virgin means being a social loser. This has been the case societally throughout much of human history.

For most normal women, being a virgin means either being protected by male relatives or having self-discipline/purity, which are all desireable traits.

Men and women are different.

Legs2Big_1 · 2021-06-01T19:07:40+00:00

Women hate being made irrelevant and want the illusion that they have more than P-sleeve to offer society to perdure.

1500minus12 · 2021-06-01T21:52:08+00:00

Sexual preselection. If a woman hasn’t given you a crumb of pussy clearly you can’t be trusted by women therefore you are dangerous to all women. It’s why you get tonnes of chicks picking them up with a fake wedding ring. You’re preselected by a woman so can’t be dangerous and you’re a provider.

nplusultra · 2021-06-01T19:01:54+00:00

They do this because it is (allegedly) an easy target and they don't want to discuss over objective facts.

DoNotTouchMyBongos · 2021-06-02T03:34:29+00:00

Because society has absolutely zero compassion for men. The public would rather make fun of virgin men’s assumed inability to successfully court female peers than attempt to understand where these guys are coming from and what their so-called hang-ups are if any. To be more on the nose about the matter, society doesn’t even regard virgin men as men when trying to be disrespectful to them—the terms “boy,” “creep,” or “incel” (involuntarily celibate) are uttered instead for stronger bullying effect. Not my opinion of these men, mind you; I’m just telling it like it is.

People point to these guys’ lack of sexual experience and weaponize that fact to be indicative of some developmental defect, as if to say that a man isn’t a man until he’s proven he can seduce multiple women and put it on his incontrovertible track record of proper lays. These people do not affirm virgin males for demonstrating any degree of traditional sexual discipline. Instead, such celibacy is ridiculed.

So, some of these guys wait until the prophesied “Ms. Right” saunters into their lives, a dated blue-pill lie of course, but all they know is what their parents taught them, so how can we judge them for holding onto their virginities? Did it ever occur to the morons speaking with such vitriol for this misunderstood group of guys that the latter may in fact choose virginity, choose celibacy, choose to wait over falling victim to the hype (aka being volcel or voluntarily celibate)? Female sexuality is used to keep men servile and weak, ensuring that there's never a breach in the average man's blue-pill thought pattern.

The moment you're out of line with what you're thinking, you're a threat that must be shamed through your sexuality, a place of insecurity for many guys and the women know this. The so-called "incels" happen to be some of the most black-pill individuals you'll ever meet, wide the hell awake to the realities of the dating market, their honest place therein, and women's bullshit and the world's bullshit. Let that sink in. It would make sense why the more ideologically radical and vocal among virgin males would be targeted the hardest: they have the potential to directly or indirectly wake up their brothers to the truth.

The mainstream media cannot seem to bring up the fact that women (80% and up) are nearly all whoring themselves out to the same top 20% of men at any time at any place. Women choose the men they want to have sex with—they’ll even share high value men—so it stands to reason that in their most fertile years, women will almost exclusively pick the perceived “best” men among us who check all their tingle boxes. That sexual selection creates, to no one’s surprise, virgins out of the rest of the guys who didn’t get sexually picked and haven’t sought out escorts to compensate.

So, even if some virgin males wanted to sling pipe at long last, there is no guarantee that they’ll get what they want even if they do all the basic things that theoretically beef up sexual marketplace value (e.g., working out, dressing well, having wit and good banter, being more assertive, having a “personality” and hobbies, looking your aesthetic best, etc.). None of that guarantees anything, though. Women just have too many options today, are entitled as hell, and have become too picky for their own good, which is to the virgin male’s disadvantage.

Do you really want to compete in a game in which you’re playing as a caricature among caricatures, competing among the few real Chads/Tyrones (~20%) whom these women go after at this stage of the game anyway? Anything you could even half want to win would just be a consolation prize, some 20-percenter’s leftovers, and that’s assuming you get anything. 30-40% of guys leave empty-handed as not every male on earth is promised reproduction rights. The game’s not worth the aggravation.

Never once does anyone consider the rising undateability, unmarriageability, misandry, and perverted femininity coming from the typical female today, who keeps the difficulty of her game for you on impossible, the rewards for the efforts on negligible or none, and has the density to complain when guys choose not to play school games with overgrown woman-children. Notice the less society shames promiscuous women, the more it dogs this significant percentage of chaste men. That’s not a coincidence. That’s by design.

I believe the question should not be why does society make fun of men who are virgins. That’s just society being disingenuous with the narrative. The real question ought to be why so few women are in comparison, and why society is comfortable giving promiscuous women the loudest microphone in the room to run traditional monogamy into the ground.

Failedalife · 2021-06-01T18:58:29+00:00

Because stupid people Not the men, but the gold diggers

SwiftStrik3 · 2021-06-01T21:37:13+00:00

Because shaming is the only tactic they have. Women don't have to try, they just lay there like beached whales while the guy does everything.

SuperSupremeKai · 2021-06-01T22:34:45+00:00

I plan on becoming a wizard. Just a few more years.

greencircle10 · 2021-06-01T19:14:02+00:00

because making fun of virginity and giving it a negative connotation will make dudes simp for hoes in order to get rid of their virginity. It gives hoes and sluts power over weak minded men who fall for their narrative that being a virgin is bad and something to make fun of.

GYOWAndy · 2021-06-01T23:52:05+00:00

It's an odd paradox of genders. Virgin females are highly saught after while virgin males are the opposite. One is of the innocence of a blank slate while the other requires sexual knowledge and approval to obtain sexual knowledge and approval.

The opposite appears true as well. Sluts are not desired but studs are. Go figure.

For the PUA types in here, generally all you need to do is get in a comfortable conversation with a woman before you exhibit an ability, knowledge, and desire to pin her against a wall with her legs on your shoulders to make her hole wet for you. This concept stirs the mind of her inner thot.

pinewoodpine · 2021-06-02T05:32:57+00:00

I’m a 33 year old virgin male and i get teased at all the time when this happens. Well, I’m not the one that has to deal with STDs, wives, divorce and kids born out of wedlock, just saying.

kleinburg11 · 2021-06-01T21:47:37+00:00

you are talking about girls right?!

this generation is full of wizards

Black_Jackel · 2021-06-01T21:30:24+00:00

To make themselves feel better

GoodFaithSockPuppet · 2021-06-02T03:15:36+00:00

Because of SIGN language. (With which apply here)
Shame - You failed to live up to a woman's standard
Insult - You have not been baptized in the V-Spritz at the Holy Altar of Woman
Guilt
Need to be Right

The only value they have is sexual selection and fornication. Thus those who have not been selected have less value.
Which yes, also means if you are an Asexual you do not exist to our Porn/Sex Culture as you are not of use to it.

MrTT3 · 2021-06-02T02:23:26+00:00

"you must be a vỉgin" the default response if you raise this question

silly_birb · 2021-06-02T15:05:40+00:00

Because anyone has the ability to fuck and it's easier than putting effort into becoming good at something, you just need an equal loser to agree to have sex.

joselyncanosbutt · 2021-06-02T15:08:49+00:00

Also, a male virgin is considered to be at the bottom rung of society while a female virgin, especially young and attractive is so high value that people would literally pay millions to wife her up.

CircuitCityBitch · 2021-06-02T19:15:57+00:00

This is the part of toxic masculinity you don't hear as often from SJWs. Say what you will about whether it exists and if that's the right term, but the idea that young men aren't men until they're getting laid is destructive to individual men and the idea of manhood overall, but it keeps happening because we've set up a construction of what a man is "supposed" to look like, based around traditional gender roles.

Daikon_kudasai · 2021-06-03T09:03:37+00:00

I heard before. Male virgin haven't been blessed by women. Meanwhile sluts have been defiled by too many men... But I'm not so sure it applies now...

Title	Why do people make fun of male virgins
Author	Brad20005
Upvotes	54
Comments	31
Date	June 1, 2021 6:37 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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