I've been seeing someone recently - someone who I was seeing last year until she went cold. There was no bad blood - and I decided that it would be nice if we gave things another try.

We've seen each other 4 times in the last 11 days - and each of those times, we both have enjoyed our time together, but last night I got a nice phone call, followed by a few texts which sort of put my back up.

She out of the blue pointed out how much of an 'enigma' I was when we first met, and how, to an extent, I still am, and she often wonders what I am thinking because she cannot tell. She knows full well that I do not warm quickly to people, and that recognizing my emotions and articulating them can be a challenge for me, so I reiterated that which I told her a time ago, and she begins asking questions such as:

in general or with me?   and, How come you persisted in us going out again then if you struggle to open up?'

and then make a point that she is 'the exact opposite and opens up to the wrong people so get fucked over'. - exactly what I am cautious of and why I am like I am, which I pointed out.

From her tone, I was getting this vibe that she was a bit annoyed. Mad thing is - in the middle of all of this, she's telling me that she 'really likes me' and she's 'trying not to overthink how I am'.

I told her that I'm into her - as I suspect that she may have been questioning this, then her tone completely changed, and she wished me goodnight.

Like I say, it sort of annoyed me. She knows how I am, and all I want is for her to be patient. What speculation can you give as to why a woman might be being like this towards me and what the fuck she might want? Anything else you might want to add is cool too.