Other opportunites

MusicgoonV2 · 2021-05-29T08:22:42+00:00

Bro there's women everywhere..... I've met them in line grabbing coffee. At concerts, at the gym, at restaurants, walking in the park, at meetups ect. You can even do online shit like tinder and OKC.

Why do you think bars are necessary? They aren't.

Plenty_good_stuff · 2021-05-29T09:50:13+00:00

same here. my hunting ground is usually the gym, especially since the covid measures where i live i was getting my social time only from the gym. what sucks though is that where i go the quality and quantity of women can be better.

BajaGhia · 2021-05-29T15:29:20+00:00

Bar is actually my least favorite. It's usually loud, full of drunks, too much other stuff going on, no thank you.

The best characteristic seems to be the ability to initiate anywhere. I was reading another post this morning discussing the merits of the numbers game vs PUA skill. As a career corporate salesperson, please don't underestimate the power of a numbers game.

If you stack the deck in your favor by lifting, grooming, being attractive, not being unattractive, etc. And then go out and "open", be personable, make eye contact, be interesting, be interested, and "close" for a number or instadate, you'll do fairly well. And after a couple weeks you'll develop a rhythm and cadence and delivery that works well for you.

You can do this anywhere, shopping, gym, etc. I like to befriend cashiers and staff on all my usual haunts. Not to pick up on them, its too close to shitting where i eat, but so i can use them as props for preselection. And i get better service everywhere i go because of it.

When you walk up to the counter and the bakery/flower/produce girl gives you a warm hello and a big smile and starts engaging in conversation with you its also easier to then bring your target into the conversation than it is to cold open. Shit, half the time they join in on their own. You make a joke, they laugh, they make a comment you chuckle, look over and say, "that was funny, my name is ...whats yours?" They'll shake your hand and tell you and then you can tell by reading the body language if they are interested or not.

This is where the PUA skills may or may not be a factor. If they aren't interested can you make them interested? If you've opened 5 girls this week do you need/want to?

Sorry, that was a lot. Really it was more for me to write stuff down.

TLDR: Just do it.

Title	Other opportunites
Author	alphaonthecomeup
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	May 29, 2021 6:15 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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