I've reached a real plateau and would appreciate advice from guys who have been in a similar situation and overcome it.

2 years ago a 6 year LTR ended, and left me feeling a bit fucked up at age 37. To get over it I really focused on self improvement. I'd never really had the courage to approach hot women, so I made that my goal.

I started lifting regularly, lost 20 pounds, bought a new wardrobe, and most importantly started going out every Friday and chatting to girls. I tried to apply insights I read on Chateau Heartiste, Rational Male and Illimitable Men, Return of Kings etc.

I overcame approach anxiety, and started chatting up attractive girls and getting sustained interest. It wasn't hard to get numbers. I had a few girls tell me I was great to chat to, they seemed to like my cocky/funny vibe.

A girl I almost had something with a few years ago visited me and fucked my brains out over a weekend. I went on a few Tinder dates with 5/6s and they all seemed interested, but also looking for something serious, so I just passed on them.

One night a few months later in desperation I fucked a friendly fat chick I met in a club, but had no interest in taking that further.

A few weeks ago I turned 39. I probably look the best I have in my life (several girls I have chatted to have told me I am hot, I would give myself a 7/10), most girls I meet think I am in my late 20s. But I haven't had a date in almost 6 months.

Despite working so hard on my game and myself I feel further away from getting a sexual partner than ever. Earlier in my life when I was a blue pilled beta I found it much easier to get girls, and more frequently. I'd settle for a 6-7 at this point, but it's just not happening.

Internet dating sites don't work, I don't get matches on Tinder, and the girls I meet and chat up stick me on Whatsapp and that's where I stay. The ones who ask my age next me immediately, no matter how much chemistry we had.

In this situation its hard to avoid developing a stench of failure and desperation. I have approached a good 100 women who have given me IOIs without it going further than maybe a kiss, and I am starting to lose confidence, because nothing ever goes anywhere. I don't know what else to do that I haven't already done or tried.

Here's the twist. For some reason all my friends who are in relationships, their wives are interested in me, and some have come onto me really hard. Eventually it turned out that one couple were literal swingers and I ended up fucking his wife a few weeks ago.. so none of this makes any fucking sense to me.

Any advice appreciated..