We had plans this weekend that I wanted to enjoy before finally ending things. However, the opportunity to remove my “supply” to her narcissism arose last night on the phone when I caught her in a lie and I gave her a soft next. I did not mention anything about break up, I’ve just learned who she is to a point where I knew that soft nexting her and removing my attention alone would cause her to nuke this relationship which is why I did it. She proceeded to try and be sweet and apologize through text, only to 5 minutes later after I ignored her attempts, become angry, try to gas light me, and try to regain the power by saying “You’re testing my patience”. (she was the one who was caught, how am I testing her patience? lol) and then proceeded to threaten me with downloading a dating app and saying “You have 5 minutes to respond to me or I’m taking it to the next level”.

Finally, I sent her a text with an amused tone along the lines of “I knew your game all along and guess what? You just lost. I beat you. I’m so much better than you. I wish you all the best and take care!” Which made her go ballistic over text, trying to take the power back by saying “I can’t believe you, don’t ever come back into my life again, fuck off”. Then, an hour or so later sends me two LONG texts apologizing and trying to bring up past memories to hoover me back in. I ignored all of it.

I blocked her number and there’s something going on with my iPhone where she can STILL call and text me. So I see she’s tried calling me all night and a few times today. I’ve ignored all of it. My worry is that she is planning on driving to me (1 hour away) to try and persuade back into the relationship. As I said earlier, we had plans that were kinda set in stone that I wanted to enjoy with her because I had planned on ending it after this weekend, but since this situation happened, I ended it just yesterday (Tuesday).

If she happens to come to my house even though I’ve ghosted/ignored her and am sticking to this, is there any way I can manipulate this situation to spend the weekend with her in a way where we are no longer an LTR and I am checked out mentally, but still have one more weekend of sex and fun? OR, do I need to lick my wounds and let everything go? There’s no way I can ever be in a relationship with her again, I’m not exaggerating when I say she is a true NPD and I won’t let you boys down by letting her reel me back in, I just truly wanted one more weekend of fun and sex with her crazy ass..

tl;dr: Had an eventful weekend planned with my NPD LTR with plans to end things after, but had to end things today (Tuesday) due to catching her in an lie. Can I salvage some of her pussy for this last weekend as a plate, or do I need to lick my wounds and let this situation go and turn her away if she shows up to my house since I’ve gone full no contact?