What is your go-to "routine" sex with a new girl?

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BusterVadge · 2016-11-18T14:15:26+00:00

My tip is that new girls come and go so do what you want. Personally I have always screened out boring women with a few questions about being tied up and spanked. If they react negatively, I know we won't be sexually compatible, so I move on.

The pre-screening has always made first time sex great for me.

Heathcliff-- · Fri Nov 18 14:39:14 2016 UTC

Fast escalation, it needs to be "passionate" (in their words).

What this means is, once you know that you've got the all clear, you go nought to 100 from the get go. Making out should be hard, hands should be grabbing all over her body, you should get some little gasps. Lift her up and throw her onto bed. Get her naked asap and your fingers in her quick. Don't pause for anything. I don't even let her suck me off the first time, that slows down the pace of the fuck. You need it to be carnal and animalistic the first time, that's the impression you need to give her.

Slow, jokey cute sex can come after a few more sessions. Blowjobs start from round 2, and definitely don't go down on her from the beginning. (I rarely go down on plates at all) Basically you want to avoid anything that "slows" down the sex or takes it down a notch, you need to keep escalating in power and intensity until you nut. The only thing that can ruin the mood is getting the condom, make sure you're quick and deft at putting it on, otherwise the tension can be lost.

When I nut I never do it in the condom, and especially the first time I make sure to cum all over her tits/face. You need to assert that this will be the norm from the beginning, and most girls who are trying to impress you will let you do this the first time, and every time after. If you nut in the condom the first few times then cummin on her face becomes something you might need to negotiate with her later. You want to avoid that.

In terms of roughness, I don't go past hair pulling/light choking the first time. Even if they seem into it, I save the real rough play for when I know she's not crazy and can actually handle it, will be a few sessions of easing it in before I'm slapping her and leaving bruises.

After nutting I normally make an excuse to leave like have a shower/smoke. No cuddling after. You need to assert you're their to fuck her and fuck her only, you're not her boyfriend and you won't cuddle with her the first time or the second time. After you get to know each other better and she earns it, you can allow her to lay her head on your chest in bed afterwards or whatever.

UziNidalee · 2016-11-18T15:26:28+00:00

I usually tell them to be "Nice and clean for me". Go down on them and make them cum, after a tiny break, tell them to get on top to get me hard as a rock. Push them away, stand up and pick them up, start making out, then throw them on the bed, tease them with my dick and fuck them really hard. Always talk to them and tease them, keep grabbing on different parts of their body with a firm grip -> Doggy style, slapping, hair pulling.

What do you guys think of making them cum with your mouth first? Is this a beta behaviour or should I stick to what works for me?

FrameWalker · 2016-11-18T15:45:53+00:00

Read sex God method. The first time can be very very good. Fresh pussy can feel amazing. Build the tension.

At the same time don't lose your masculine polarity. If you try too hard to please your dominance will suffer. You're better off giving them instructions on how to please you.

Docbear64 · 2016-11-18T15:56:33+00:00

I have no go to routine , if there's a chick whose neck I'd love to nibble, a chick whose has I want to bite , a chick whose nipples I want to suck , or if I just want to spank her and bend her over that's exactly what I'm doing . sex should be fun , no need for strategizing IMO , if I feel it I do it .

someboringdude · 2016-11-18T16:36:20+00:00

I am extremely aggressive. I eat pussy like its food. I pull hair, spank, bite, and slap. From beginning to end I am in control. Matter of fact she cant even suck my dick unless i allow her to. Then I nut , shoot her a few bucks and some weed and I'm out.

TheRedStoic · 2016-11-18T14:12:58+00:00

Whatever I'm feeling, but blood will probably be drawn, at the least some hefty bruising around the neck and ass and wrists.

I dunno. I go kinda primal hate fuck on a first lay.

Also one of the few places I feel anxiety is on a first lay, so I last a good bit longer than normal, so seeing her cum definitely is a goal. After that I'm much more self centered.

Title	What is your go-to "routine" sex with a new girl?
Author	Idiophobia
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Date	November 18, 2016 12:47 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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