Marital "rape" was a common thing and in some countries it wasnt even considered rape so men literally not caring about their wifes comfort or pleasure and having sex with her EVEN THO she clearly didnt consent was common!

And the more disturbing part it was considered normal.

Men are selfish and will put their needs above yours this is just example through history.

Also saddest thing the coercion isnt direct anymore but alot of women still clearly just have sex not for their pleasure but because of their rapey boyfriend or husband.