How do I change the course?

The_Precipice_ · 2021-06-07T18:22:28+00:00

I think the only men who don’t want to feel like they are your only option are not very serious and are also in touch with multiple other girls. Most men would prefer a girl that doesn’t go out and hook up with guys all the time, most guys would love to feel like their woman is loyal and invested solely in them. I think most men AND women want that sort of happiness and security

JadedByEntropy · 2021-06-06T19:50:58+00:00

What is a "hot girl "? Lol a ho?

SunkissedBlondie · 2021-06-06T20:02:08+00:00

You are a woman. You always will have other options and that is a good thing. It seems that you are at least self aware and know not to overshare.

AnotherRichard827379 · 2021-06-06T23:47:46+00:00

In my opinion, a girl that goes out with other men is a major major turn off. I am looking to be your one and only, not a loser in a line of men you go between when you get bored.

What self respecting man actually wants a woman that “hangs around” other men? Asking for a toxic relationship if you want my two cents.

To me you should act eager. If he is Red Pill, a woman eager to be with you is a loyal girl who ought to be valued. If it were me, a girl being eager is a plus sign. I mean, don’t stalk him or anything but you understand what I’m saying.

yungskeleton · 2021-06-07T21:01:42+00:00

You don't have to say he's your only option like that. As other people said already, you are a woman, there's always more men looking to date you than women looking to date him. If he's the type to like women that "go out a lot and be a hot girl" just stop talking to him.

Now to your answer, you should simply say that you're more of a "homely" type. Don't make a big deal out of it though, you don't wanna seem like those girls that think enjoying books is a whole personality.

ClickKlakk · 2021-06-28T04:36:06+00:00

How do I handle these types of questions or navigate them in a way that shows who I am without feeling like I’m revealing too much?

Answer playfully. In all honesty a question like that better be playful in nature to begin with (I think this one was) or you’ve got an insecurity red flag on your hands.

For example, he asked if I’m the type to go out a lot and be a hot girl (which apparently is very common now with women). I told him no that’s not me and I don’t have any guys at all. While that is true, sometimes men don’t want to feel like they are your only option.

It’s not fun and signals over investment when you answer shit like this seriously. That’s what you’re wanting to avoid - seeming like you’re over invested. I don’t want to over share and look desperate

Responses that would achieve this (be silly):

“Nooooo I’ve never even been on a date before”

“I’m actually releasing a new rap album about my exploits next week”

Worrying about saying the right thing is communicating that you ARE invested in the outcome, and it puts you at a disadvantage. Being playful solves all problems at once and makes the encounter fun.

Title	How do I change the course?
Author	mekkamekkahi
Upvotes	6
Comments	17
Date	June 6, 2021 6:29 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/nts6ah/how_do_i_change_the_course/
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