For example, i really dont have a problem with the traditional approach, i like that of courting a woman and getting to know her, however i met a woman one day that said things like "if you want to be my boyfriend you have to buy me expensive stuff I dont need to prove you re interested cuz I have high standards and you pay for everything and take me to the most expensive place in the town and....." you get it, when she said that, I couldnt help it but wonder if her past reflected those supposed high standards, obviously asking wouldnt have granted a clear answer nor a respectful and honest one because is 'not my business' , and I couldnt know if that woman was someone worth pursuing since I had to treat her like a girlfriend from the start to prove I was deserving of a "relationship".

However there was an ocassion in which I really enjoyed my time with a woman who was far from the virginal godess that gets pedestalized and criticized so much in the sub, yet I really felt like courting her the way the first woman demanded despite knowing about her past which was quite colorful but nothing hardcore, it really didnt matter to me that time but she never wanted to go through that process, she wanted to have sex first even though I prefered the traditional approach (never slept with her in casual way if thats what you re wondering)

Has something like this happened to any of you?