I need help with ED.

fnordsnord · 2016-11-27T20:24:36+00:00

First off: according to my doc, if you can spank the monkey effectively, you almost certainly don't have a physical problem. The problem is between your ears.

Second - if you're older than 16 - 17 and are still choking the chicken once or twice a day, you've developed an unhealthy habit. If you're not getting a regular bang from your lady once or twice a week, then yeah, even grownups beat the bishop occasionally to relieve the stress. But more than twice a week ain't good for you.

Again, depending on your age, you can train yourself to prefer your hand to poon. If you're using porn or porn ideation, it's worse, and can fuck you up. Google "Porn induced erectile dysfunction" for details.

So: Quit porn. Cut WAAAY back on beating the Bishop. You should be fine. Talk to your doctor and be as frank as you've been here. He'll be able to help you. What you're dealing with is common, especially among older virgins.

Willkuer_ · 2016-11-27T20:37:46+00:00

I had problems with nofap and ED. Had like zero sexdrive although I haven't been a heavy fapper for at least 5-10 years. I went from nofap to edging with real memories. Works like charm.

If you are fapping a lot try to go nofap for at least a month. Better three. If after some time that's too much go a bit back towards edging.

creating_my_life · 2016-11-27T20:06:59+00:00

I am one of those wait till your marriage guy.

That's a poor life strategy IMHO. But it's your choice.

I will loose my erection.

Lose. not Loose.

When im masturbating it works fine

There's your problem. Stop masturbating.

Because of this I have strted masturbating often.

go to nofap.

How do I convince myself that I am fine?

stop masturbating.

Should I get some tests done?

No.

Is this ED?

Yes. And your fiance will drop you if you can't bone her properly.

I need help.

No you don't need help. You need to stop masturbating.

zopiro · 2016-11-27T20:50:00+00:00

It's not ED if it works fine when masturbation. It's all in your head. Just try to relax. Are you a Christian? If so, look at the "Serenity Prayer".

No problem in waiting until marriage. Be extra-sure to pick the right one. Once you're married, you'll learn to relax around her, and she will be supportive whatever happens. The whole idea of marriage is for both persons to be as of one flesh. Since your dick works fine when you're by yourself, it will work fine when you're with her as well.

Chill.

EDIT: I stand by the advice of cutting it with masturbation and porn. It messes up your mind (happened to me). It will happen, of course, as we're all sinners, but you should try as hard as you can to avoid it.

Title	I need help with ED.
Author	illpmyoumyduck
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	November 27, 2016 7:21 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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