So a month ago, I exchanged numbers with this chick I meet in the daytime. But I think I might have been to reserved.

I send her a text: Me: "Hey, wanna meet up on wednesday ?"

Her(2 days later!): "Hey, Im really busy with schoold this week. Possible I can do friday or this weekend! Mind if I send you a text on thursday ?"

Me(Much later same day): "Ok"

Her (Thursday): "Hey, How are you doing ? I have alot going on these days. And I actually found out I dont really want meet someone right now. Sorry, but it was very nice getting to know you a little bit."

Me(Immediately): "Understand".

Now, I felt the first response was vague. And a part of me didnt want to give her the weekend, I kind of felt I would look like a loser by giving her the weekend. Although I instead went out alone, and it sucked.

Was I trying to hard to play it cool ?

She is pretty fine, and going out with her on the weekend would probably have been alot more fun for me. I have an itch to try again, as it has been a couple of weeks and I think its worth a shot.

I know even writing this is rooted in my "lack of abundance". But guys, seriously I have daygamed and its just so tiring to keep putting in an effort and it going nowhere.