I had a first date with a girl who knows beforehand that I don't want an LTR. I straight up told her and she still went on a date with me. She's pretty, small, smart(booksmart) listens to classical music, reads books all day, works in literature, barely drinks, into yoga, etc.. you get the picture...

I am more of a blue collar type with an office job. The first date went great but I had to fuel the conversation from beginning to end. She told me straight up that she is shy but I told her I disagree(trying to make her comfy so she opens up more) she did open up a little more and there was never any uncomfy periods of silence.

Anyway I have to be honest there was no kino except the standard kiss on the cheeks at meet and once again at leave. However a lot of eye contact and I think she's interested. She texted me an hour after the date to let me know had a good time and she want to meet again.

I have never dated this type of girl before and I want to gain experience with them. But I am concerned about the dates becoming boring later on if I dont get her to open up more.

What should be my strategy here? What types of dates activities are good with these chicks.

Usualy my strategy is having fun in bars, laugh, a little alcohol, kino, escalate, repeat.

But this time I know it will not work.

I can tell however that she likes my ''dont give a crap" attitude.

How do I break into her bubble and how do I escalate with these type of women.