So there’s this guy that I used to sleep with years back, think like 2014, and we’ve stayed friends ever since. Well I moved away and found a then boyfriend so obviously I stopped seeing this dude. Well I ended up moving back to my hometown and he wanted to hang out again. I straight up told him I wasn’t attracted to him and we could hang out as friends and that’s it. Every time we hung out he’d ask for something sexual whether it was to go down on me or something stupid to see my boob. (Annoying AF)

Flash back to a month ago to where I thought he might’ve changed. We hung out, drove around and he got some food (didn’t even offer me anything) and we went back to his apartment to hang out. Well be pestered the shit out of me to do something sexual and I said no repeatedly. He then started begging to “at least show him a tit”. I was annoyed and an idiot and did it to shut him up. Well he’s texted me twice this weekend asking to hang out and I’ve rejected him both times knowing he’d ask for something sexual and I don’t feel like dealing with it. The dude texts me again tonight knowing I just denied him two days in a row. I’ve ignored his text.

My lesson learned here is that LVM never change, even tho he said he’d stop asking for sexual stuff, and that I will never, ever be pressured into to do something sexual for a man ever again just because he’s annoying me or because I legit feel pressured to do so.

I’m trying to leave my pickme ways and I think this lesson learned was a good start to doing so.