Brothers,

I'm conflicted. I have two great girls to choose from and want them both with me on NYE. They've met and are aware of eachother but trying to invite them both sounds like a pain.

I have a HB6 girlfriend in an open relationship who has been with me now for 6 months. I caught her in one significant lie during that time, she was very sorry. I have kept the relationship non-exclusive. She is great in bed, sweet, and I can make her come whenever I want as many times as I want and she's very in love with me. She adds value in the sense of being loyal and reliable, she hasn't taken another male partner (afaik) despite having the option to do so. I'm her best option.

Enter the plate/mistress. This girl ive been fucking about 5 weeks once a week or so. Just straight up hot as fuck (hb8-9 for my tastes) and very sexual. Has also been on very good behavior and never flaked or been late or pulled shit. I'm sensing STR/LTR potential but it's too early to call. She is probably fucking other guys but again she treats me right when were together and occasionally sends me thoughtful texts etc. letting me know I'm still in her head.

Personally, I'd rather spend the night with HB8. Shed almost certainly say yes and we'd have a fucking ball and she's hotter so not complicated.

BUT.. I stupidly inferred I would be taking my hb6 gf to NYE. She is already jelaous af of the other girl so if I burn her on this she's gone. Worse, if the HB8 feels like she's on a pedestal because of this scenario and knows that I blew up my relationship to spend NYE with her she might break too.

I can pull new options, abundance and all that but I'm detecting some cognitive dissonance so I would appreciate your advice. Am I valuing the new hot plate too highly? Should I do what I really want and not gaf?

If I take my GF we will still have a great time, but she has said something along the lines of how she has to "think about our relationship" and whether she can keep doing it open. Theres a chance she breaks anyways in like a month if I refuse to commit, which I am unwilling to do for her (red flags and a slutty past).

By contrast the new HB8 has peppered hints that she wants to be more than a Fuckbuddy. I feel like a promotion-by-default would happen too early if I break my other relationship now. Maybe in a couple of months but not yet.

I've also got another great event in February (festival) in mind for the new plate if she makes it that far.